abcde,
You said,
Jws offer some good things
This may appear to be true. That's why many people are attracted to them. If they looked totally evil, nobody would come to them. Further, you said
Help to live your life.
Is this what a religion should really do? Or should they mainly provide ideas and principles? It has been truly stated on this board that the JW's try to do all your thinking FOR you. They make rules regarding every area of life, what to think, what to eat, even down to the most personal matters involving what kind of sex is okay. In this way, they have added a long list of rules to the Bible, just like the Phariseees did. Jesus called this burdensome, and so do many of us on this board.
You went on to say,
hope for the future.
This is the major function of most religions. Almost all of them offer some hope, as you know. For nominal Christians, it's heavenly life in God's kingdom. For Islamic terrorists, apparently they're offered the hope of life with multiple women at their service immediately after they've served Allah's purpose here. For Hindus, it may be reincarnation. For JW's, it's an Armageddon to happen in 1975, the 20th century, or "soon", followed by an earthly paradise for the majority of the faithful. But for 99.9% of mankind, it means a harsh God is about to slaughter them because they didn't follow the rules of a publishing house in Brooklyn Heights, New York. You then said,
I think jws deserve some positive comments too.
Most people on the board do not hate JW's as people, rather they distrust the dysfunctional organization and its unorthodox teachings. Finally you said
Being critical is not what its cracked up to be.
But abcde, you did come on here and were critical of the majority of this board's posters, right? So even in your mind, criticism can be valid and serve a purpose.
This board is all about freedom and free speech. As long as you put forth reasonable thoughts and don't get disrespectful, your postings here will be welcomed (even if not agreed with by many). I encourage you to keep reading, keep thinking. You are a valuable person, and please don't feel put down just because people here may disagree (even vigorously) with some points you make. After all, many of us used to be in your shoes!
GopherWhy shouldn't truth be stranger than fiction? Fiction, after all, has to make sense.
Mark Twain (1835-1910)