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  to all parents..please please answer...

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  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  joyyyyyyyyyy...it's good to hear from you..thanks.problems never seem to end..some moments of happiness in exchange for more moments of sadness and sorrow..why is life like this...it just worsens...better off ..it's harder when someone makes u feel like they own you..only way to prove that my life is mine is i have the power to take it.
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  who here has gay children?

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  ...is it ok?

  did you try to stop them?

  (please consider coming from a very conservative background/culture)..relatives/friends talking about it, possible trauma which may be caused by society's discrimination...

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  gotcha

  maybe the society you're in is more tolerant but where im coming from is not...and will maybe take a long time before considering gayness as not something bad...but again question is who here has gay or bi children...? how did you cope with and how did your children come out to you..?
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  to all parents..please please answer...

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  gotcha

  hello joyzabel (did you change your nick)...im not that great now...it's really been a long time......

  thank you to all who have answered..im really a confused person right now...im just trying to see from a parent's point of view..i wonder why what's happening is so very much different from the responses i got.

  it's hard when we hurt the people we love...sometimes it's better just to disappear and dont cause them too problems or shame
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  to all parents..please please answer...

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  gotcha

  even if u were sure she was just destroying herself....would u still want her to live and continue making a mess out of her life?
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  who here has gay children?

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  ...is it ok?

  did you try to stop them?

  (please consider coming from a very conservative background/culture)..relatives/friends talking about it, possible trauma which may be caused by society's discrimination...

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  gotcha

  i wish i could divulge more information...if you have some time to discuss more about this issue please pm me. thanks very much. hoping that others who find themselves in this kind of situation please pm me.
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  to all parents..please please answer...

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  gotcha

  there's another option which i forgot...would you rather that she were:

  5. dead
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  who here has gay children?

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  ...is it ok?

  did you try to stop them?

  (please consider coming from a very conservative background/culture)..relatives/friends talking about it, possible trauma which may be caused by society's discrimination...

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
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  gotcha

  ...is it ok? did you try to stop them? (please consider coming from a very conservative background/culture)..relatives/friends talking about it, possible trauma which may be caused by society's discrimination...
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  56

  to all parents..please please answer...

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  gotcha

  what im asking is that if you had the choice....what in your opinion is the best (least detrimental to your daughter) just like..if your daughter wants to be a jw...(maybe if it were your choice you'd rather her not be one)...sorry for asking too much
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  to all parents..please please answer...

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  gotcha

  thanks for your answers.....

  1.if with guy...maybe can have children...will follow norm and just break up when things dont turn out right

  2. if girl, she loves the girl but it is just wrong (condemned in the bible), and u think your child is not gay just influenced by this other person..would u try to straighten her out? like if you feel that your child is being friends with someone who is really really bad like drug pusher/pimp wouldnt u do anything within your power to control? for example..when u before believed in jws u made your children go to the kh and stuff meaning you love them so you'd want them to survive armageddon ..so wouldnt u do same thing if u knew that something is really really wrong(you will try to control)??

  3. drug addict - can be cured

  4. be alone - not much problems except that there's not much happiness either
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  56

  to all parents..please please answer...

  by gotcha in

  1. social
  2. family

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter.

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...).

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  3. 
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  gotcha

  hello it's been a long time since i was here just needed some input please from all loving parents...would you rather your daughter be:

  1. married to a guy who's not really that great (history of having lotsa women, irresponsible) but seems to love/like your daughter

  2. be gay (with woman who is quite good, responsible and everything but - a woman...)

  3. be a drug addict

  4. be alone

  what would u rather choose? maybe you'd say you'll respect your daughter's decision but what if u can choose for her...what's the lesser of all evils..?thanks in advance..