told on me of course.
apparently, the other jw thought he was kidding.. i just said, you tell on me and take my family from me, we are done.
we will get a divorce and you will lose me, your home, and more then likely won't get to see your kids everyday the way you get to now.
It's just a matter of time now before I lose my mom, dad, sisters and brothers. I feel sick about it. But, I made a promise to myself I would really start celebrating everything when my oldest turns 4 cause that is the age they remember things as they get older. I kept true to that starting with the day she turned 4. Even did my version of Easter.
But, doesn't stop me from feeling sad about feeling like its only a matter of time before I get excommunicated... :(
told on me of course.
apparently, the other jw thought he was kidding.. i just said, you tell on me and take my family from me, we are done.
we will get a divorce and you will lose me, your home, and more then likely won't get to see your kids everyday the way you get to now.
Told on me of course. Apparently, the other JW thought he was kidding.
I just said, you tell on me and take my family from me, we are done. We will get a divorce and you will lose me, your home, and more then likely won't get to see your kids everyday the way you get to now. And, you rat me out, I will do the same thing to you.
I'm not going to live my life scared of what he might do. He wants to corner me??? Fine, good-bye then. See you later. I will not be stuck and am fine on my own.
it was so nerve racking!
it wasn't anything big, but its all she ever talks about in front of all my family!!!
i mean, she talks about it almost every single frigging day.
I have no clue, I've never celebrated it myself so I thought it would be nice but not this big of a deal...
I will take him too. Not sure how long our marriage will last but he will be around our kids all the time.
it was so nerve racking!
it wasn't anything big, but its all she ever talks about in front of all my family!!!
i mean, she talks about it almost every single frigging day.
I really didn't think it would be this big of a deal to her. I'm a little bit shocked by it...
It's also forcing the JW issues which I was hoping to avoid as long as possible...
it was so nerve racking!
it wasn't anything big, but its all she ever talks about in front of all my family!!!
i mean, she talks about it almost every single frigging day.
She is outting me to my JW family. So, I feel like they are going to soon shun me so there will be nothing keeping me here anymore. Looking for a house in a different state.
She is four.
it was so nerve racking!
it wasn't anything big, but its all she ever talks about in front of all my family!!!
i mean, she talks about it almost every single frigging day.
It was so nerve racking! It wasn't anything big, but its ALL SHE EVER TALKS ABOUT in front of ALL my family!!! I mean, she talks about it almost every single frigging day. I didn't know it would be this big of a deal...
My mom tried to tell her we don't celebrate birthdays and my daughter just completely ignores her and goes on and on and on all about how great they are! Every single toy she sees is a "birthday present". We had a cake for my brothers anniversary and she announced that it was a birthday cake and tried to blow out the candles that weren't there. I said to my mom not to make a big deal of it because she will just feed into her excitement about it and she completely backed down.
But, this gig is up for me pretty soon. I'm not going to not celebrate it and I won't allow anyone to teach her its wrong. I'm done. Literally looking for a new home...
after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
"Look Cognac, I know you don't "want" a divorce and it sounds like some of us are pushing for that. We just see the writing on the wall and you can't or won't because of your emotional attachement and closeness to the situation which is perfectly understanable.
You sound like a really nice lady, but before you get sucked into this vortex of hurt and pain realize and accept one fact:
You nor I can control anyone else.
That means either, he is or he isn't sleeping with or in love with this other woman.
He either will or won't sit down like a man and talk to you about the issues in your marriage."
The problem has to be with me. He must be just reacting to what I'm doing wrong. I can't act like I'm innocent in all this. I just must not be an easy person to deal with...
after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
I don't get the feeling he's moved to end game. I've been watching him closely. Now, after thinking about it for a bit I think he deleted me cause he didn't want me to see him posting. I made it clear after the time a girl sent him a message saying that she loved him that I didn't want him on facebook for awhile. He doesn't like to be controlled, so deleted me so I just wouldn't know he was on.
and I logged onto his account, no messages from her. Seems like one of us piss the other one off, and then it just spirals into this domino effect. But now, I'm kinda over it and not really reacting and it seems to have changed things a little. At least it ends that domino thing.
I really don't want a divorce. I'm just trying to work things out in my mind.
after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
That's the point, our communication is terrible. He just got back on his ADD meds, that usually helps...
after this whole thing with him talking to this other girl on fb, now he deleted me as a friend.
i have his username and password.
it's like, he doesn't want this marriage to work at all.. i don't even have it in me to argue with him.
I asked him about it, he denied it. Whatever...
