It seems that a lot of congregations have that "Jezebel influence" of elders' wives telling their husbands how to do things.
I really think she has or at least used to have a bit of an influence on him. I heard before he used to be really strict, but now he seems to be a very reasonable person... I wonder if he is trapped in his position and because of his wife can't fade or all hell will break loose...
I mean, he has no problem stating if another elder is "just giving his opinion" and or sticking the worlds biggest hard-a** on me when I wanted to pioneer. (I wonder if he did that because he wanted to be discouraged from it... which almost worked...)
And I noticed that he drinks a lot everytime I'm around him in a social setting and he doesn't seem to be the least bit buzzed... High tolerance??? Oh, and another time I was lit in front of him and he didn't say a word about it... lol...