I agree with cognizant and others, I think stay out of it.
If you want to apply the "do unto others" rule, you need to also apply it to the two having the affair. You don't know the full story, or what has led them to the affair. Maybe their partners also cheated at some point.
It is actually possible that a person may NOT wish to know that their spouse is cheating. Perhaps they already suspect but prefer to put their head in the sand. It is highly likely that they ARE suspicious, and if they really wanted to know there are ways to find out.
I don't think any outside party has the right to interfere with a relationship, no matter what they know.
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What would you do if you knew...
by loosie inthat one of your coworkers was cheating on his spouse with another coworker?
i know the wife.
she works at the school my daughter attends.
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Need Your Opinions on a Strange Private Mail I Received - Give Me Your Take
by flipper inso- 2 weeks ago i got this private mail from a poster who had never posted on the jwd board before .
which seemed strange to me in , and of itself - what would cause this person to pm me ?
anyway a poster named oak sent me this message : under the title : " did you know ?
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Not long after I started posting I received a PM that totally freaked me out.
It started out saying basically "I know who you are.." I thought it was some nutcase until I kept reading and realised this person actually DID know who I was. Eeeek! Luckily it was a fellow dub who is in a similar situation to me, so it was all good.
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What would keep you in?
by DisconnectingDrone infor those still "in" but looking for an exit, what changes to current practices/teaching would make you decide to stay "in" ?
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LMAO @ 007... open bar?? Okay, maybe I'd reconsider for that.
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What would keep you in?
by DisconnectingDrone infor those still "in" but looking for an exit, what changes to current practices/teaching would make you decide to stay "in" ?
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Hell freezing over might stop me leaving.
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Did you have any ''dirty creepy old men'' in your congro?
by karter inwe had one always had his hands on the sisters and would stare at there brests all the time .
any new sisters were ''new meat'' lost count off the times he was told off by the elders
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An elder here has molested and messed up the lives of many young girls during his eldership.
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How do the elders know if you are truly repentent?
by jetery inthe reason why i ask is because whenever u are df and u are trying to get reinstated they are always tellling u that u have to produce fruits befitting repentenace like attending the meetings,etc.
they always make it seem that since they are gods spirit-directed org.
that he will know whether or not if a person is repentent.
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Oops wrong thread. But yeah, I agree. They're pretty much clueless. :-)
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WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?
by V injust another interesting comment i have received on the watchtower comments youtube channel.
feel free to deconstruct.... .
what is wrong with you?
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This topic couldn't have come at a better time.
I played your about 5 of your videos to another doubting dub a few hours ago. The impact of them was very powerful, they definitely hit the mark.
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Has Anyone Else Heard about the Second Letter Re KH Funds?
by jamiebowers indo you remember when someone posted that the society recently sent a letter to all of the kh's asking that they deposit their funds in the society's bank, so the society could earn interest on each congregation's principal?
i heard from a confidential source that a second letter was sent to the congregations who haven't yet done so, telling them that they are selfish and unwilling to help christ's brothers.
if this is correct, does anyone have a scan of the letter they could share on jwd?
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I'd love to see it.
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Jehovah's Witness wives do not need consciences.
by hotchocolate inmy feelings on this subject have continued consistent throughout my time from being a zealous, believing witness to now.
so there's all these areas of "conscience" as a dub, which movies you can watch, what you can wear etc etc.
but.. here's the catch.
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We have an elder who treats his wife like one of his children. He doesn't agree with women getting together for coffee, so he curbs her doing things except as a family. And I've always experienced men, particularly elders, who think that their husbandly headship should be exercised over anyone without a willy.
The WT uses the term "equal" when describing men and women, but then undermines that in everything else that is written. There was an Awake in the 60's about the size of a woman's brain being smaller than a mans. That article was embarrassingly sexist, but I think that was just one time of many that revealed the true attitude of the GB of women.
Hey, does anyone have a scan of that?
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Jehovah's Witness wives do not need consciences.
by hotchocolate inmy feelings on this subject have continued consistent throughout my time from being a zealous, believing witness to now.
so there's all these areas of "conscience" as a dub, which movies you can watch, what you can wear etc etc.
but.. here's the catch.
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ha!! ahhh "Your weakness is my strength, carry on!" That is classic Flipster.
All you naughty, spiritually weak people. No wonder you're all postates - it was the oral that did it - the tool of Satan himself.