I've been trying to think of a reason to stay with the WT ORG. Can't think of one,but can think of many reasons why ineed to leave. First of all, a few years ago when I thought the Bros. were God, I tried to help my daughter who was having kindof a hard time. Well, she had Witness boyfriend and they did a little more than they should have if you get my drift. Anyway, the elders meetings were terrible.They had no idea how to handle the situation. One of them sat there and actually said that she needed to pay close attention to what he said because when you talked to him you were talking to Jehovah!!!Well that really blew my mind. I think that was the moment I really started doubting everything I had ever beleived. The nerve of him. I still regret not gettin up and walking out. I would now but not before calling him the biggest *****hypocrite in the world.Then to top it off, the boyfriends mother who was supposed to be my best friend, blamed me for her dear little boy getting in trouble.I still can't stand looking at her and this happened back 5 or 6 years ago.Of course after this my daughter was MARKED as not good association. What bull!!! Afew months later we all made plans to go to a concert, of course when this good friend finds that my daughter is going, her and the she-male of the cong. come over quoting scriptures on why they can't go with me if she comes too. So I said fine. I choose my daughter over you any day. S, we go to the concert, me and my daughter, and they don't even speak to us. Was the best time I ever had.There are so many other things that have happened and I"m sorry to bore all of you to death, but it is so theraputic for me to get this all out. Thank you all for being there.Let me know what you would have done in my place.
crapola
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Another reason for leaving.
by crapola ini've been trying to think of a reason to stay with the wt org.
can't think of one,but can think of many reasons why ineed to leave.
first of all, a few years ago when i thought the bros. were god, i tried to help my daughter who was having kindof a hard time.
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Voting
by crapola ini'm watching the news and wondering who all out there are going to take advantage of the privilege to vote?
i'm not a registered voter yet.
but who knows imight be soon.
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crapola
I'm watching the news and wondering who all out there are going to take advantage of the privilege to vote? I'm not a registered voter YET. But who knows Imight be soon. Let me know your thoughts on it.
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you know you are an apostate when.....
by loosie inyou buy a plush rabbit for your collection and you see that the name of it is " flip flop" and you think of the wt society rather than a summer sandal.. .
add your own....
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crapola
When you read stuff on this website and don't feel ANY GUILT! HA HA HA
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Do you ever miss it? Ever?
by AK - Jeff infor me - rarely would be the correct word.
i don't miss the indoctrination.
i don't miss the wasted time in service.
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crapola
No not at all. I thought I had true friends, then a problem came up thta testes that friendship and guess what? That's rightshe did a great disappearing act. So I'm glad I'm out.
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I left after 9 years ...
by sacolton ini just disassociated myself after nine long years in the wtbts after researching the history of the wtbts and its founders and their lies, false prophecies and mind-control doctrines.
read my profile for more about that.
anyway, i'm glad there is a wonderful support group for those who have escaped the grasp of the wtbts and enjoy life again without the constant fear that the wtbts instills at every meeting.
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crapola
I read your post and amhappy that you have had the strength to leave. I've had doubts all my life, since I was taught this as a child. My hardest thing to overcome has been my Mother because she is still very much involved with it and will not except the fact that I no longer want it. But we each have to live our lives the way we see fit. Hopefully your wife will come around to your way of thinking. It's not fair to deprive you of the joy of having a family beacuse of the difference in your views, but that's the controlling part of the org. Anyway, good luck from one who is still trying to get out in Okla.
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Trying to make changes in my life. Need help!
by crapola inanyone out there that can give me advice on how to make everyone see that i've decided to leave the "truth"and to leave me alone!!!!!!
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crapola
I've really enjoyed reading the replys so far . Keep em coming. Need all the encouragement I can get.
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Anyone attending the Memorial this year?
by sooner7nc inmy wife is probably expecting me to go, and i'm not looking forward to the confrontation.
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crapola
Yes, I'm going to Memorial because I've not missed one in 38 years. Old habits die hard.
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Very HIGH Snow Banks where I live
by JH inenjoy the pictures.
i took these this morning and its cold out too -15c.. .
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crapola
Your advice as been good so far, but It's really hard to let people know how I feel. It's been my whole life for 52 years and I'm just blown away with the amount of crap I'm hearing about dying at ARM. I know deep dpwn that it's crap.
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Trying to make changes in my life. Need help!
by crapola inanyone out there that can give me advice on how to make everyone see that i've decided to leave the "truth"and to leave me alone!!!!!!
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crapola
Anyone out there that can give me advice on how to make everyone see that I've decided to leave the "truth"and to leave me alone!!!!!!!