I have wondered the same thing many times.
I can't see how people equate a loving God, a farther with this extremely harsh treatment.
No parent would torture their child, no matter what mistake. But we should believe God would torture people that have never heard of him? How can a few years of sin be punished by enternity of torture? How can a God that does things like that punish people like Hitler?
Justice? Rightiousness? No Way! Who would worship a God like that?
I share your sentiments U_R, just remember: there are always people with twisted minds like that.
Greven