My whining is relative to my culture. I don't apologize for being born in the U.S. or much anything else out of my control. Too ask me to put myself in their position is impossible without being born into their position. I can empathize but that is it. Xander hit the nail right on the head. I learned this in Anthro. by the way, you can't dump a bunch of money into a country and think that it is going to do anything. Using money to fix problems is an American idea and it rarely ever works. You have to work in the confines of the given culture. Too often we really believe that people would be better off (or that they want to be) if they were just like us. This type of ethnocentrism leads to Somalia's around the world.
Money for these starving countries is way down the list in terms of things we need to help them with. People in Africa are dying of aids like its the spanish flu. We could fly over 500 billion condoms. How many of those do you think would get used? They are stuck in a vicious cycle of death due to their culture not having changed along with the rest of the industialized world. You could drop $100 bills all over the continent and it still wouldn't do any good.