Thanks all, good advice,
I and my Wife will always be here for her,she is being DF'd for not being scripturally free.
I just think her former husband has pushed the E's into this,he has not re-married and as she divorced him for his bullying etc. she is not "free" but has married anyway,a nice normal, never JW, guy.
I still think it will be fun to mess with the Elders over convening a JC for as long as possible if she is willing.
love
wobble