(((Franklin)))
We recently had to go to the funeral of a 21 year old we had known for years. We also kept sending food to his family, because everyone is numb & not really seeing to their own needs. We also typed up a paper called "Memories of Nick", about when we first met him, some really funny stories about him & remembering his car & fashon fixation, etc. We gave this to the parents at the dinner after the funeral & at some point they went outside & read it & returned smiling, but with tears in their eyes & said it was something they'd keep & treasure.
I also had gone to a flower shop (wwwRoyers.com on the web) & looked at all kinds of flowers, but settled on something under "novelties", it was a black metal Hot Rod car with flames, full of flowers, because that was THE essence of Nick. I signed the card from 4 of his closets friends from way back. I didn't know if this was a stupid thing to do or not, but they buried it with him.
What was the poor little thing into? Flower shops can do really well with these things if they have something to go on.
We plan to rteach out to the parents & try to be friends because they really want to talk about Nick & remember him, & they are kind of alone. Especially the mother.
Good luck! I have recently been there & I hope I never have to go back. The death of a child or really young person is so very hard.