one thing we all have in common - everybody who started posting on jwd , were all " new " posters in the beginning on this board.
so take yourself back in time for a minute - how were you received here ?
did people welcome you warmly ?
My BF (IMM) and I have both had very good experiences when posting on this site and have gotten GREAT feedback. (well except for a few that told him that he'd be better off dumping his ex-dub GF for a non-exdub lol)
Seriously though, I am really glad this site is here, and I am looking forward to getting to know everyone here.
with my parents.
i want to tell them i'm dating a "worldly" man even though according to them i'm not "free" to remarry.
i want to tell them that i don't ever want to be a part of the wbts again.
Thanks Momz,
It does help to hear how others have done it. I am an adult and have been living on my own for several years. I also resent having to explain myself and I just want my parents to accept my decisions. However I know from experiance they are very inquisitive and there will be a lot of follow up questions. I am learning to set boundries although I'm not very good at it, and to be honest the thought of talking to them on the phone about this stresses me out a great deal. They know I have not been attending meetings for some time and are not happy about it to say the least. Lately they just seem very cold toward me, not that we talk much anymore... I'm not sure if the chilly conversations we have make it easier or harder. I guess it depends on the day.
with my parents.
i want to tell them i'm dating a "worldly" man even though according to them i'm not "free" to remarry.
i want to tell them that i don't ever want to be a part of the wbts again.
with my parents. I want to tell them I'm dating a "worldly" man even though according to them I'm not "free" to remarry. I want to tell them that I don't ever want to be a part of the WBTS again. I want to tell them why, but I don't want to be labeled an "apostate" because I don't want to lose them completly so maybe I will keep my reasons to myself. I am trying to decide whether to pour my heart out in a letter or over the phone. I tend to like letters because then you can't be interrupted and there seems to be less intimidation but I am worried that it may come off as cowardly and impersonal. Any thoughts or idea on the best way to handle this???
loving and forgiving are a huge component of jesus' message to his disciples.. in answer to the question as to how many times forgiveness should be offered to an offender, jesus gave the reply, "seventy (times) seven.
" (variously interpreted as either 77 times or a multiple of 70 times 7).. an example is given of a man who owed a considerable sum of money whose debt was forgiven.
this man failed to forgive a much smaller debt owed to him.
Seems like all you have to do in order to not get DF'd for some "serious" sin is say you're repentant and have seen the error of your ways (you don't have to mean it though) and then go to all meetings and some FS for a while. It doesn't matter what you've done or whom you've hurt, you can get out of it with those simple actions AND your victims are supposed to just forgive you. I know this from seeing those around me work the system so to speak.
So there you have it empty apology + meeting attendance = gross sins being washed away.
i love to cook huge elaborate 10 course dinners and party foods but what about when your sick and just want something that is quick and easy and makes you feel good?
what food do you guys like when your sick?
sweet or salty sticky or soupy????.
Campbell's vegetable soup (the one with the alphabet noodles) and a PB&J sandwich cut diagonally into triangles. Dip the sandwich triangles into the soup! SOOOO YUMMY!!!!!!.
Reminds me of my childhood.
i decided to take in my first meeting today in an effort to better understand my girlfriend's family.
to be honest, i am not looking forward to this at all.
i know most all the people i am going to meet are nice and mean well.
I will soon be formally introducing IMM to my parents. We both feel very strongly about the WTS, however IMM had never been to a meeting before yesterday. I decided to go one last time so he could see what it's like and now when confronted by my parents as to whether he's ever even been he can at least say he has and that it was a load of garbage. I do feel that him having this experiance will help prepare him for dealing with my parents.
We've tried out a couple of churches and it was actually harder for me to step into a KH than my first church was. I was actually surprised by the feelings I had going there. We went to a congo where I didn't know anyone, so there was no added pressure there.
I'm just glad that it's over and I NEVER wanna do that again!
my little sister just called to inform me the she has completed her baptism questions and is scheduled to get dunked in a few months.
there's not really anything i can do or say about it because she's a minor and in my oppinion not old enough to make any life long commitment.
anyone have a similar situation?
I don't want to give her exact age, but I will say that she has not even reached her teenage years yet and is still a child. I'm afraid that if I say anything out of line with the dub beliefs to her, my parents will restrict my contact with her. So I feel like in some ways I am forced to play along. Although they do know that I'm "inactive" and have "worldly" friends.
i decided to take in my first meeting today in an effort to better understand my girlfriend's family.
to be honest, i am not looking forward to this at all.
i know most all the people i am going to meet are nice and mean well.
And another thing!
The speaker gave an experiance about a schizophrenic sister that said listening to kingdom melody tapes is better than any medicine prescribed by her doctors.... Don't schizophrenics tend to dislike medicine? And is that really the best endorsement for kindom melodies they could get???
There were also 2 sisters in the bathroom talking about how immodest another sisters engagment ring was and how she shouldn't be so flashy..... I had almost forgotten how catty some of these "sisters" can be.
ggrruunnn...uunnngghhhh.......uurrrrr.......plop.............ahhhhhh........and there floats scholar in the bowl..........................oompa
ROFL! This stuff is too funny.
a huge announcement will be made in the end of watchtower study next weekend.
we may post here the main issue soon.
"The bookstudy meeting will end at private homes"
Is that a guess or fact?
