Wing Control and Cameo, I totally agree with both of you. Why should anyone have to walk on eggs all their day's afraid they might upset someone because of their own feelings? You disagree and your being punished daily for following your own thinking and reasoning. One partner calling all the shots, either believe like me or your evil. Sheesh! How can anyone live like that?
Your wife did over step her boundaries by going behind your back and calling the PO.
The day some religious organization tries to talk to me about a sexual private matter between two partners is the day I would say good bye. I will never understand where they get off thinking they have a right to question you or anyone on such a private matter. That should be left to the two partners or a marriage councelor.
I know you have a child involved in this marriage and that makes it difficult but at the same time, I feel raising a child in a cult is child abuse and maybe the child would be better off with one parent that is not involved.
Take a stand for your individual rights Jimmy Page, tell the PO its your household and you don't need some outsiders interferring. I'll bet they will back down, may DA you or DF you but thats what your really wanting anyway.
I still think you need to reverse the situation, get p***** everytime she brings up the WT, get p***** everytime she takes your child to KH or a DC. Make her be the one to feel uncomfortable around you. Make her be the one walking on eggs everytime she has a jw friend over, walk around being rude don't speak to them act like their taking up your comfort time in your own home. Just make life miserable for her when it comes to anything JW. It may be bad advise but heck, why are you the one always doing the giving.
I truely feel sorry for you and your child for having to deal with this cult, truely sorry! I have family in too and it just makes me crazy.