I don't remember ever hearing my parents say anything like that out loud but I have come to believe in the last few years that my mother has always held it against me for messing up her plans.
My father & mother had both been pioneering for a while before they got married. The plan was to marry and continue pioneering. She had even considered going to Gilead.
9 1/2 months after they were married I appeared on the scene and pioneering came to a screaching halt along with all her other plans.
My cousin just told me last year that she and my aunt (mom's sister) had talked about the way mom had always treated me and they decided it was because I got in the way of her plans. My cousin was very anxious about telling what they felt but finally told me what she was thinking. It was interesting I had already come to the same conclusion.