Don't send the letter. You to not have to play by their rules.
tiffy0212
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My "Leaving" Letter
by lambsbottom inthrough what i have learned from reading bro.
russell's writings about the ransom for all, coupled with the blood issue, i feel the need to let my friends know that i am making a stand for truth.
i could have lost my wife to the blood issue during pregnancy.
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Why are anniversaries okay?
by MrFreeze ini'm sure this topic has been brought up before.
i was at a jw graduation party yesterday and realized "if birthday parties are not okay because they supposedly bring undue attention to an individual, why are graduation parties and wedding anniversaries okay?
" they both glorify individuals and put them on a pedestal.
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tiffy0212
Because sister's would really get upset if they didn't get a least 1 gift from their husband. What a joke to even have a celebration sucked up by the org. Bunch of puppets is what they all are. Their conventions should be limited to only a small group.
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Saturday afternoon session
by tiffy0212 inhas anyone sat thru the saturday session allow nothing to distance you from jehovah.
satan's subtle efforts pride, money, health, career, recreation, family and of course technology.
i would like to know what this is all about this family thing.
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Has anyone sat thru the saturday session Allow nothing to distance you from Jehovah
Satan's Subtle Efforts Pride, Money, Health, Career, Recreation, Family and of course technology. I would like to know what this is all about this family thing. I'm sure something must have been said about unbelievers.
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Do You Personally Know Of Anyone That Committed Suicide?
by minimus inlately, i've come to find out that a more than a few people in the area had killed themselves.
most of the people i know of were in their early twenties or forties.
for those loved ones surviving them, it was mostly a shock!
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tiffy0212
I know of 3 people that went to the hall that commited suicide. All we male and in their early years. One hung himself, one locked himself is his car in the garage and turned the car on, and the other shot himself.
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I called the elders today, they are meeting tonite about my husband
by tiffy0212 intoday i found my husbands patient advocate card, and guess what my name is not on it.
it has been filled out by all of the elders.
took a copy for myself, and left him a note to let him know that i had a copy.
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tiffy0212
Today I found my husbands patient advocate card, and guess what my name is not on it. It has been filled out by all of the elders. Took a copy for myself, and left him a note to let him know that I had a copy. I also told him I would let the children know and now I know for sure that I am no part of his life. When I got to work I called a elder who was very kind to me when my husband left us in 1984. I told him everything about how I am being treated. That I sleep in the basement, don't know what's in the bank, and he kept my name of the savings account for 18 years. Trust me this brother is a very kind man and after my husband left us he was the only elder that gave me money for my children. I have to go to a lawyer and find out if this is a legal document, and if it is I guess I have nothing to do with his medical treatment. Before I hung up the phone he assured me he was going to speak with the elders tonite. I told him that I want my husband to file for seperation or divorce. He did ask me how long this was going on and I told him 2 years. I know he was writing all of this down because one time he asked me to slow down. I also told him I have a letter ready to send to the circuit overseer and new york with back up so they know that I am not lying. Before we hung up the phone he said "May Jehovah bless and keep you".
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What happened to your marriage after you stopped believing?
by JerkhovahsWitless ini know some posters here went through or are going through some painful things right now because of no longer believing when they have a husband / wife that still does.
others were able to free the minds of their spouse.
i'm assuming the latter is a lot more rare.. anyone that wishes to share their story, please do.. i'm looking to pass the info on to someone who doesn't totally believe, but may marry a jw.
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tiffy0212
Just live under the same roof. Marriage is over. 43 years down the drain. He is so into the jws and himself. I finally asked him to file since his book keeping yourself in gods love says if he feels "spiritual endagerment" he can file for a legal seperation. We don't even speak to each other. Trying to save some money so I can get out of this Hell Hole. The hell he has created for me to live in is the same hell he is going to live in.
Tiffy
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MILLIONS NOW LIVING MAY NEVER DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tommorow I'm going to........
by cantleave inbuy a lottery ticket.
not because i really want to, or i think i am going to win (logic tells me the odds of winning are ridicuolsly low).
no i'm going to buy a ticket because i can.
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I bought a $5.00 instant ticket today and won $15.00. Last year I bought a $20.00 dollar ticket and won $1000.00. I go to the casino when I have extra cash, but that is about twice a year. I just love it.
Tiffy
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I'm starting to tell on my husband
by tiffy0212 inyesterday a brother called the house and asked for my husband.
i told him i'm sorry he is doing his study and i will not call him to the phone.
i told him we do not talk to each other and he would have to call him back around 11:30. he called back around 11:40 and sure sounded different then his first call.
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Palmtree,
Guess we were in the same boat. Back in 1984 he took all money out of my name and left me and the kids. By the way he was a elder when he did this. Only one brother at the hall borrowed me money, the rest of the time I was on welfare. The only thing the brothers did was remove him as a elder. He was gone for about 9 months and then came back. Me and the kids never walked back into the hall. He left because my daughter did not want to attend anymore. She had no friends and was very lonely. He stopped talking to her and that crushed her. What a life. I can hardly believe that the brothers and your husband's hall did nothing to him. By the way I think they were okay with us leaving after all he is the contributor every month and I had no money.
I got myself a job and worked full time for 20 years and kept my own checking account. I would never put money in his accounts because of what he did to me. That really makes him angry. He said we are one. Yeah right only when it comes to money. Does he think I am stupid.?
I even sleep in the basement because he will get up at 4:00 in the morning to read his books and wakes me up. Hey, after all I am the one going to work I need my rest.
What made you get a divorce?
Tiffy
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I'm starting to tell on my husband
by tiffy0212 inyesterday a brother called the house and asked for my husband.
i told him i'm sorry he is doing his study and i will not call him to the phone.
i told him we do not talk to each other and he would have to call him back around 11:30. he called back around 11:40 and sure sounded different then his first call.
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tiffy0212
I might call the elders after the first of the year. I don't want to ruin Christmas for my children and grandchildren. They have to know something is wrong unless he puts on his christian personality. Really in his head he thinks he is right. I have been married for a long time and I don't even know what we have in the bank. Not allowed to even go there. My name is on accounts only for legal reasons. What a jerk he is. I do have a letter that I wrote to the circuit overseer and the main office. He said that if I sent it they would laugh in my face and I would make a fool of myself. If only he knew I have copies of all bank records, 401k plan that I had, and had to cash in because I needed to the money to support myself, all of he nasty notes, and yes all utilities are in my name that he has never put in his name. Maybe I am the stupid one letting him get away with this.
Tiffy