Just got a call from a lady who informed me that her husband died. Very close friend of my mate. Memorial service is Aug 2nd. We are suppose to leave on vacation Aug 1st. Who want to place a bet that we don't take our last vacation together??????
tiffy0212
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Need all of your imput now!!!!!!!!!
by tiffy0212 injust got a call from a lady who informed me that her husband died.
very close friend of my mate.
memorial service is aug 2nd.
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Those With JW Spouses - How are you Coping ? Any experiences ?
by flipper ini wanted to address the folks on board here who really have a challenge on their hands.
and i feel it's good for us to acknowledge the great job many of them are accomplishing with the pressures they have on them living with a spouse in a mind control cult.
i know it would be so easy sometimes for some in that position to say , " the hell with it !
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tiffy0212
I have been a wt widow for over 21 years. long story read my post. I am very lonely and have been with him 42 yrs, but will get out soon. Everyday is a struggle and I hate it. I have 2 wonderful children and 2 grandchildren, they are my life. They tell me to do what makes me feel good and to enjoy my life. Sometimes when I speak with him he lies right to my face about his belief, I get so angry I cry. I don't hurt anymore that is gone, but the anger is eating me up. Take alot of drugs to keep calm beause I have some health issues. He doesn't even know what I take and frankly he doesn't really give a dam. Life is all about him and his needs. Sex life is gone and he won't get any help with that because the drugs don't work on him. No implant for him probably against his belief. We don't do much together because he is always gone meeting, field service and more meetings.
When I tell him I am leaving he says the bible says if you can't live together in peace then leave. So I guess I will leave. We have to stay strong and keep encouraged that there is a better life for us.
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regarding higher education at convention?
by tiffy0212 incan anyone out there tell me what day they spoke about not going to college.
can't seem to find that in my my mates notes.
would like to prove him a liar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Please don't tell me that they are now trying to get into our bedroom!! Are these people stupid enough to tell elders what type of sexual activity goes on between husband and wife? What are these couples doing wrong? If there are any articles in the wt or aw let me know my mate has a room full of bound volumes. Do they have any advise what to do if your husband can perform? The drugs don't work how about a implant. That is one question I would like to send to the wt, but I know they would never answer. Hope I didn't offend you with these questions.
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regarding higher education at convention?
by tiffy0212 incan anyone out there tell me what day they spoke about not going to college.
can't seem to find that in my my mates notes.
would like to prove him a liar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Can anyone out there tell me what day they spoke about not going to college. Can't seem to find that in my my mates notes. Would like to prove him a liar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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What JW teaching did you find hardest to defend??
by karter infor me it was that god is killing billions of people just to prove a point.
what about you?
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tiffy0212
That co issue really bothers me also. I remember when I went to meetings in the 70's we had to go to second hand stores to buy clothes for meetings. When the co was at the hall for a visit it was announced that he needed a new car, and my stupid husband opened his wallet to give his contribution. CO first family second. I never understood why they don't work. He just received a thank you note and I am demanding a receipt for income tax purposes. I have their phone number and if he doesn't get it I will call them. Don't live off the retirement of others. I thought the bible said if you don't work you don't eat. They get the cash and don't pay tax. Render to Ceasar the things that are Ceasar's and god the things that are gods. Do they get all of their money from congregations or does the wts support them?
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Venus Williams on Larry King Live Wednesday 9 PM ET
by kwr invenus williams will be on larry king this wednesday night at 9pm et / 6pm pt.
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being disfellowshipped?
by tiffy0212 inif you get disfellowshipped from the kh, when they read the letter what is said?
i know they don't tell why, but don't the elders have special cards that they have to fill out stating the reason?
could a person who is df get a copy of that card?
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If you get disfellowshipped from the kh, when they read the letter what is said? I know they don't tell why, but don't the elders have special cards that they have to fill out stating the reason? Could a person who is df get a copy of that card? Or would he need to get a lawyer in order to get it?
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Yet another new guy...
by tresdecu infirst, let me say it is scary posting here for me.
if my past self could see me now!
i am a ms, been so for about 12 years.
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tiffy0212
God bless you for seeing the light. I wish my husband could see what he is putting me through. At one time he was a elder, but removed because he left us. I went to the kh for 10 years, walked out and never went back, because they let him pray after the book study. He wasn't even supporting the family, I had to go on welfare. I live a very lonely life and will be leaving him early in 2009. You may have to go through some lonley time, but stay strong. Being on this sight has helped me so much. Everyone has a kind heart and we have all been put through one thing or another. Stay strong and keep us posted.
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Possessing The Qualifications For Eldership Doesn't Mean...
by White Dove in...one is appointed by holy spirit.
why does the wts think it does?
isn't that equivocation?.
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my husband was removed as an elder in 1985, because he left us. Did the holy spirit make a mistake?????? of did Jehovah make a mistake????? They are all a little bit crazy..
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Where does the governing body live?
by tiffy0212 injust wondering if those guys live at bethel or do they have some fancy hide away mansion?
are any of them married?
also would like to know if anyone out there has any pictures of the pyramids that some say are on the top of the watchtower building.
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tiffy0212
Just wondering if those guys live at Bethel or do they have some fancy hide away mansion? Are any of them married? Also would like to know if anyone out there has any pictures of the pyramids that some say are on the top of the watchtower building. This discussion board is so interesting and I have found out so much stuff. Thank everyone and keep up the good work. You guys really know what you are talking about. You keep me going and it really helps to know people feel the same way I do.
Did any of you see Serena Williams on her remarks about JW's and voting? It was on my MSN site today. She should keep her mouth shut, just take the money you WIN and keep all the awards and trophies. Bet the elders will be talking to her. Wonder what hall she attends?