I dont know much about what others do -- I do know Jw's in my area contribute to the hospital, fire hall, police donation for underprivledged kids , myself -- to all the above plus the Alzheimers society, a second hospital , SPCA - as a matter of fact, I have to put a budget together for the yearly onslaught of phone calls and give what I can
During blizzards, contacted all the neighbours to see if they were ok - took food to others,
Dont paint everyone with a brush, its not nice