My somewhat "inactive" mother says she's getting the feeling that I'm losing my faith in the WTS and has asked me to explain to her. Problem is, I locked up because it's been so recent and my mother can be quite intimidating. She's a "see it to believe it" person and has suggested that I show her proof. I try to explain and speak, but I get pinned up and nervous because I'm newly learning myself.
I sat and thought about it a while and decided to just give her a "info sheet" maybe 2-3 pages long, that we can study together and ask questions. I'm convinced, but she's still thinking that WTS is "the truth" and that something must be wrong wit her for having feelings of doubt. So, she wanted me to show and teach her what I've learned and to give her an explanation for my disbelief in the organization. For now, she seems to have an open mind. And I feel that now is the time to act on that... an act out of love for my mother. Because I don't want to see her hurt and depressed anymore over what she's feeling about the society. She's at the KH right now out of fear. I've decided not to go, but I kno when she get's back, she's going to ask me why I did what I did.
I know where to look and research. But I was wondering if I could get some tips and info on how to present it and where to start. Maybe learns something new that I haven't found out yet. I wrote up a draft, but I want it to be an honest fact sheet and easy to understand. I've done a numbered list of things for her to read and look up for herself. But it's so.... well, I just need some help. lol
A basic info sheet with all WT refereces that she can look up for herself. It's important that the scriptures and comments quoted are from the WT publications and NWT bible.
Nickey this might help. It is a good place to start separating witness faith in the Org fromtheir faith in God.
The January 15, 1970 Watchtower p. 37-40 contains arcticle titled:
"Which Comes First- Your Church or God?"
"The "first man" represents the believers who remain faithful to their church out of loyalty to the religion they were brought to believe in. Thier attitude is: Right or wrong, it is my religion! Is that the way you feel? If so, you are certainly a loyal person. But to whom do you owe the greater loyalty-to your church, or to God? With so much disbelief rife throughout the earth, you are to be commended for maintaining your faith, but where should your faith be placed-in a religious organization, or in God?" p.37
"The "second man" mentioned in the Nouvel Observateur represents those Catholics and Protestants who stay with their church because they do not know where else to go. They have been taught that their church represents God, and they do not want to turn away from him. They disapprove of many church practices or doctrines, but they hope to reform their church from within. Typical of these are the 744 French Catholics who, in November 1968, sent a long open letter to the pope. In it they stated: "Today the Christian needs to live in a 'true' Church . . . Therefore all that is false, contrary to the Gospel and scandalous within the Church today wounds the Christian." Then followed a long list of grievances against the Catholic Church and it current teachings and practices. Yet, toward the end, these catholics expressed their unconditional adherence to their church by alluding to John 6:68 and stating: "Who could we go to? In her [the Roman Catholic Church] we find the One who has words of eternal life." p.39
I beileve that this Watchtower arcticle can with a few simple questions be used effectively to separate the witnesses "Loyalty to God" from "Loyalty to the Organization". The Issue of faith in a religious organization being separte from faith in God is addressed nicely. Also issues of "where else to go" and the misappication of John 6:68 from Christ to a "church" or "organization" can be very effectively brought up using this arcticle.
In an earlier post the follwing was given by a former witness as some of the reasons for staying in the Watchtower Organization.
"Obstacles/hinderances: Loyalty. Thinking that there was no where else to go. Fear of the unknown. Believing God and the Watchtower were inseperable. Believing we would lose Gods protective barrier and bring death on our family (Like Job) if we left."
I believe that the above article can be used effectively and non-offensively to deal with these common issues.
Edited by - hooberus on 30 December 2002 12:19:28