Getting out was sad at first. I became introverted for the first time in my life, trying to figure out what I was going to do, what to believe in, and how to make friends outside. I am an outgoing person and usually happy. My former husband had his freedom from the Borg a few years earlier. He was ready to do everything he had wanted to since he was in for almost 30 years. I gave him plenty of room to express himself and explore. The marriage ended. Now I am really learning how to live on my own for the first time in my life since the divorce. I am at peace with myself and my life right now. Don't have to cook or clean for anyone but me and my house is taking shape with my personality, finally. I am looking forward to my birthday this year, soon. I had my first Christmas tree this past year, it was lovely. I regained my family, and his family are still very nice to me. Everyone was so happy we left the dubs. I have made new friends where I live and gained a better outlook on my freedom. I am almost to the place I want to be that I can say I am happy. Still have some days that I grieve over the loss of my best friend and husband. Have been spending more time by myself to get comfortable with it and it works. Welcome to all the new ones on here who are just getting started with their posting. It is good to move on with your new life.
Kit