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chellechelle
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What Are Your Favorite "Comfort Foods"?
by minimus inpersonally, i love chicken pot pie with a real pie crust---not the flaky puff topping..
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The stupid father of one of my kids.........
by oompa inso i go to the trader joes the other day and notice a really attractive .
woman in produce, but i can't place her....so i follow her over to the bread aisle, and got a better view of her face....but still could not figure out where i knew her from....so i finally said "excuse me, but you look so familiar, i almost know we have met before.
she looks me right in the eyes and says, (without smiling) "'i'm pretty sure you're the father of one of my kids.
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chellechelle
nice
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What Got YOU Out Of The Organization?
by minimus inhow did you come to the final decision to get out of her (the organization, "mother")?
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chellechelle
i had been fading basically for a year but i needed support in order to elave for i was living with my jw parents who would surely kick me out if i left or was df'd. when i met my boyfriend i was encouraged to leave knowing i would have the support of someone who loves me and who has gone through it himself. they kicked me out when i was df'd as i suspected and i now live with the man i love :)
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Never argue with a woman
by keyser soze ini had this forwarded to me at work.
i thought the ladies would get a kick out of it:.
never argue with a woman.
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chellechelle
ahahaha thats awesome :)
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Did you like the name "Jehovah's Witnesses"?
by JimmyPage inor did you wish the religion had a more mainstream name?
i can remember a "worldly" schoolmate telling me he wouldn't object to the religion so much if the name didn't sound so weird..
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chellechelle
children of the tower--- lol haha thats awesome.. like children of the corn
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Are You Past Irrational Fear?
by compound complex ingreetings, friends:.
the central theme of a film i viewed last night is 'a life lived in fear is a life half lived.'.
apart from normal fears, have you, for the most part, eliminated irrational concerns and worries from your life?.
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chellechelle
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6b_lAb_GmI4 these videos are very insigtful...
the nature and the eradication of fear
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Ladies - Educate us Men - What Do you Want From your Man ?
by flipper inso i started this thread on another board too.
we have a sizeable number of people - men and women not in a relationship perhaps here.
ladies - what is it that you want in a relationship emotionally, mentally, sexually, and materially ?
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chellechelle
never feeling controlled. i think this has come to be the most important thing that i want... i dont want to feel as if i have to always be a certain way in order for you to like me. i want to feel free to do certain things.and one other thing.. never tell me to be quiet you can have your opinion you damn well listen to mine lol... and think about my emotions..if there is something you dont like to do for expample cuddling or watching a certain movie or sleeping a certain way, do it everyonce in a while just for me cause it makes me fele good. you know I Do many many things such as this for you :)
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As a JW Did you Feel you Could Fully Trust the Elders ?
by flipper ini know for many of the 44 years i was in the jw cult from birth - i felt i could.
or should i say i was conditioned to feel that " i should " trust the elders.
as jehovah's witnesses we were all told the elders were " crags in a waterless country " who would be a " spiritual stronghold " for us.
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chellechelle
ofcourse not. i learned from an early age that if you wanted to stay within the congregation you could not under any circumstances rust the elders with your actions and feelings. i have seen many people disfellowshipped or seriously hurt in my hall by their counsel since i was very young. and personally i do not trust anyone withwhom i do not have a close personal relationship i.e good friendship with. trust comes after understanding one another on a deeper level..,
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therapist says affairs can help some/my marriage....really...
by oompa inwell that took me back a bit...but since i have led a double life since third grade...i have become the master of compartmentalizing...and since my exit and since it is now not just to my parents (as a youth)...but now having to do it to my hardcore jw wife....well...it just gets frikkin easier and easier...i now think i am becoming capable of stuff i would have never dreamed of...this is scary.... i have decided i can afford it financially though i dread this at 47, since this is the second time i would lose half my assets....crap...and my wife is a wonderful lady!...hot even!...but i so want to grow and be totally free...damm the costs are so high...why cant i be content with a non-nagging jw wife?????.
oh...and basically it seems that if certain needs (not just sex!
) need to be met...and your mate will never know...than it can help your marriage continue with no bad side effects???
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chellechelle
im sorry if i attacked i did not mean to do so. that kinda thing jsut bugs me.. i feel for your wife, as i feel for you everyone has the right to be happy in their relationships. i jsut think that the proper way to deal with a problem is directly. i think you would make yourself feel worse if you cheated then if you jsut asked for a divorce or s seperation.. and trust me i know cheating hurts more.
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How Old are You ?
by flipper ini know- you aren't used to seeing me ask a simple question like this.
so- i'll start .
i am 49 years old, will be 50 in october .
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chellechelle
jsut turned 18... :)