I spent 32 years of my life being duped by a mind control cult. My parent and all my older friend who claimed to care about me taugh me lies about my self and about reality. You are not good enough, you are insufficeint and defecient, unclean weak, etc. I left at age 45 cause I could't take it anymore, yes I was angry for a while too. It takes time to get over it, and he we work his way through it in his own time and own way. I may take years, so don't hold your breath. I laught at it often now, humor helps a lot.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDp7pkEcJVQ&NR=1&feature=fvwp
Just ask Karl