She says that people are disfellowshipped because they simply want to live their lives the way they want to and no longer submit to God's will. In other words, they want to do something that is immoral and goes against Bible principles.
Smoking.
People are routinely DFd for smoking. My Dad for instance. He wanted to be DFd; he went outside the KH, lit one up and waited for someone to see him. However, how is taking tobacco (a natural growing plant, paper, and chemicals) and lighting it immoral and going against Bible Principles? How is this not submitting to God's Will?
Seriously, this is one of the most Fucked up reasons to DF someone.
Getting Drunk.
Again, wine has been around forever. At least as long as grapes have been harvested and someone figured out that the grape juice that they thought went bad was really, really good.
So, you drink too much fermented grape juice and you get tipsy.
Suddenly you are not *Submitting to God's Will*.
Again, I gotta say, this is too fucked up for words.
If someone is a raging alcoholic, they need help not being kicked out from their support network of friends and family. Make sense?
Only the Cult of Watchtower would kick someone with an addiction and say "You swarmy bastard, you drink, get out. You might....do something we don't like. Oh, and like all those bible characters who got drunk, you're not submitting to God's Will. You're DFd."
FUBAR