I sent my mother flowers. I also sent them to my ill sister in the hospital; her only child hasn't spoken to her in months and has only visited her once since she started treatment for XXXX back in January.
As a side, my mom got the flowers yesterday and after calling me to tell me all about her day and how miserable it was she said:
"oh, yeah, it was the day of your birth yesterday. You're now a day older." That's it, that is how she acknowledged my birthday, the day before. She then said "I've been too busy with your sister's stuff think about you."
Ummm, yeah. Whatever. Thanks Mom. You make honoring you easy. Really. <sarcasm>
Then she said "Oh, and thanks for the flowers."
Why do I bother?
Oh, because I hate to lower myself to her level and I like doing nice things like that.