What I noticed is that a lot of JW's think that if you are gay you're also a pedophile.
We had a single brother in the cong. from whom everybody knew he was gay.
He was a verry social person, but people were nice to him in his face, but behind his back they gossiped a lot about him saying realy mean and untrue things Like: be careful don't let your male children alone with him...
And I also gay, had a simulair experience, when my father found out I was was gay( and he was an elder) he said: What's the next step? doing it with little children? and he elders of the committee called me a pervert for doing it with men.
And this is in the netherlands, one of the most free countries for gays......
So you see, even if you would want to( Not me)...being gay and a JW is made almost impossible by the brothers and sisters in the congregation.