Dede, Your a pure hearted, I love your posts! Your threads are really the only ones I read here anymore.
I am thinking of starting a career in nursing in 5 yrs when my youngest son is older.
You can start now by taking one course at a time at your local community college. If you take one course at a time then double in a couple years. In five years you will have your Associates degree in Nursing and be eligible to take the state boards for a registered professional nurse. You may not need to put off all your dreams if you make little steps toward them each day.
I started studying as a teenager and wound up dropping out of college, where I studied fine arts, when I came into the troof. I did go back to college while a dub but it wasn't what I really wanted to do. I started to take art courses while I was a dub and was black balled for being spiritually weak. I will graduate with my second bachelors degree soon. (Actually I have another bachelors which I never applied for completion of the degree although I have the credits. I didn't want to have to reapply to the same college for a second degree)
Yes, I'm currently working toward living my dreams.