Naeb, whew!!!!! I thought I had offended someone already without meaning to! I can do that enough on purpose. lol. Good point about the chat silliness balancing the heaviness of these threads...I had not thought of it that way. I will email Simon and c if it has been suggested. Since I am new, you are probably right...it probably has been but I am going to try. BTW.....I will still appear on the current one at times....just sometimes I wish I could talk to people in a more serious or nonsexual way. :)
imissthedub
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Zenpunk's theory and my addition
by imissthedub inwas reading zenpunk's thread about how it seems ex jw's go over the deep end and i tend to agree.
i think that is normal after being repressed for so long.. however, it would sure be nice if we had more than one chat room here.
i have visited the chat several times and it seems that usually (not always) it is about who was the drunkest, who had sex with someone, who is a lesbian, etc etc etc.
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Zenpunk's theory and my addition
by imissthedub inwas reading zenpunk's thread about how it seems ex jw's go over the deep end and i tend to agree.
i think that is normal after being repressed for so long.. however, it would sure be nice if we had more than one chat room here.
i have visited the chat several times and it seems that usually (not always) it is about who was the drunkest, who had sex with someone, who is a lesbian, etc etc etc.
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imissthedub
Thanks, Zen. But please let me make it clear, noone has ever been rude to me in the chatroom. Not at all. I have nothing bad to say about anyone there.
Naeb, your comment just proves my point. I am sorry if you think I am bashing the chatroom...I am just asking for an additional one. Some of us are not interested in a foursome and would like to talk of other things in addition to (not excluding) sex, which is a great topic in itself, as long as it is not the only topic. And, how do you know if I ever did a foursome or not? If I have, does that make me a better person? My past is my past and I don't care to have it judged nor will I judge yours. I do not judge your present. I am just wishing for a place where I can talk to some people on here and get some answers about things other than sex and parties. If that offends you, then the offense is made up by you, unfortunately.
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Zenpunk's theory and my addition
by imissthedub inwas reading zenpunk's thread about how it seems ex jw's go over the deep end and i tend to agree.
i think that is normal after being repressed for so long.. however, it would sure be nice if we had more than one chat room here.
i have visited the chat several times and it seems that usually (not always) it is about who was the drunkest, who had sex with someone, who is a lesbian, etc etc etc.
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imissthedub
Was reading Zenpunk's thread about how it seems ex jw's go over the deep end and I tend to agree. I think that is normal after being repressed for so long.
However, it would sure be nice if we had more than one chat room here. I have visited the chat several times and it seems that usually (not always) it is about who was the drunkest, who had sex with someone, who is a lesbian, etc etc etc. Now, don't get me wrong. I really don't care if someone has sex with 16 people a day or at a time! I don't care if you choose to be blasted every second of the day, or if you just choose to drink once in awhile. Don't care if you are gay or lesbian. Please don't think I am juding here.
What I AM saying is I have gotten my endless partying out of my system and, while I absolutely adore sex,I am monogamous (after making one online mistake...with a JW!!!!) I would like a chat room where we would discuss other things, too. I would like to make friends with some of you and perhaps get some help getting over my jw experience (I was not the jw) and also try to help you move forward from your experience. I am not a counselor...I just would like to share some honest experiences and opinions and also know more about some of you than how much you can drink or what kind of sex you prefer.
Is it possible that we could have more then one chat room? That way, when one wants to talk about wild sex and drinking they can go to the, I don't know, the "No HOlds Barred" room or something and if someone wants to talk about other things they go to another room.
Right now, I feel that if I say anything serious in the chat room it will put a damper on the "party". So I sit there awhile, feeling pointless being there and finally leave.
Please, people, don't think I am offended by you or think you should quit your party and who can I shock next discussions. I just think some of us have been there and done that and we need another chat room. Enjoy your talks, that is what chat is for. Let's just branch out a little, if Simon can give us another room.
Plus, for anyone that IS a JW and is thinking about leaving, going to a chatroom that is all about drinking and oral, anal, multiple parnter sex will lead them to believe that everything they have heard about non JW's is true. Most of us worldly people lead pretty status quo lives. We enjoy a party, social drinking and we enjoy sex. We, however, are not in a contest regarding any of these passtimes. We are balanced, while at times we get unbalanced and need help to get balanced again.
Does this make any sense?
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Email to respond to looking Columbia TN
by imissthedub ini now realize that some of you do not want to post your email that you know people in certain aread of usa....so i have my email avail for you to respond.
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i am new to this chat and blonde to boot....so excuse me while i figure out how this works smoothly lol.
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imissthedub
Ah, but are u blonde? ROFL
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Your Captions, here:
by Tallyman intry your hand at putting a caption at the bottom.
of the watchtower picture.
your ideas are important.. we bet your caption will be scads better than the watchtower's.. watchtower "art" #1:.
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imissthedub
#1 Kiddies, who says JW's don't have fun.....draw a line thru the obstacle course to the WST and win a big suffed lion!!!!
#2 "Dam....have mercy on me and kill me, God ....I can't take anymore of this JW blathering"
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Your Captions, here:
by Tallyman intry your hand at putting a caption at the bottom.
of the watchtower picture.
your ideas are important.. we bet your caption will be scads better than the watchtower's.. watchtower "art" #1:.
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imissthedub
It's a bird, it's a plane.....no! It's the cowardly lion! (upper left of picture)
Is that a sword in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?
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making meetings more interesting
by openminded indo you keep falling asleep during meetings and assemblies?
long and boring home studies?
> here's a way to change all of that.. > > .
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Here are some more:
Rendering your marital due
For Spriptual Reasons (this covers anything they want it to)
Stumbling
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making meetings more interesting
by openminded indo you keep falling asleep during meetings and assemblies?
long and boring home studies?
> here's a way to change all of that.. > > .
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LMAO......I am STILL laughing....and I had only attended 3 times!!!!
There is a marketing opportunity here....to sell those little 'good luck trolls" that bingo players sit by their cards. Dress em up as good little dubs doing things like blowing out candles, carrying a flag, getting a transfusion.....etc. lol Sorry. Could not resist. Of course, just the fact that they are trolls (must be satanic) would be enough to cause an uproar so loud one could not hear when "BULLSHIT" was yelled. -
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Hi All. Let Me Introduce Myself.
by imissthedub insome of you have met me in the chat room, since i have been in there several times and also have been reading alot on here.
i am new to chatroom so did not realize that people posted to introduce themself.. i am not and have never been jw.
i did have someone who meant alot to me hurt my badly.
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imissthedub
Hey, thanks for the warm welcomes. I appreciate it. I look forward to chatting with all of you at some point. I am glad it is ok that I was never a witness, and...no....I would never be presumtuous enough to act like I was "smarter" or something since I did not join. It was very tempting to get more involved and I came very close. I can understand how people do. I don't think it is a measurment of intelligence.
Silverleaf, I am wondering how u were hurt. My email is listed on my profile. Please feel free to write to me, maybe we do have that in common. :)
"c" u all soon!
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non-jw's please check in here
by dungbeetle ini don't know if anyone has said this before, but i wanted to say a big thank you to all of you non-jw's who have put up with us and stayed with us and helped us out so much.. i know offhand: jerome, detective, and hawkaw.
i know there are many many more of you, but please step up here and take a very well-deserved bow and get a very well-deserved hand from me and from others..
salute!!!!!
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imissthedub
Hi and thanks Dungbeetle for showing me this thread.
I have never been JW and the reason I came here is too find out more since I was considering it. I agree with Celia, Concernedmama and Detective.....and thanks to all of you who have gone thru so much and shared it with us so that we know.