Oompa,
It's time for you to put the plug in the jug, and sleep it off.
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abbydear
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prick to nice ratio....i so love you guys....so non-judgemental...ahhh
by oompa inaahh.....ya........like that....you gotta admit that here......so seldom is there really a prob with the judgers......there are so few pricks to nice here.......i am a mess so often....and need to be bitchslaped.......and i take it well and duh....prob need it.........just thank you simon, and all you understanders.........oomps.
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abbydear
It's always tease, tease, tease,
Your happy when I'm on my knees
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What was your first vehicle?
by Blithe Freshman ini saw my first while out on errands today!.
bought a 68 camaro in 1977. paid 700$ taxes, title, registration, inspection & new tires!.
i wish i still had mine.
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abbydear
68 VW bug....not much, but at the time it was everything
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How Long Have you Been Out of the Witnesses ? Have you Moved On ?
by flipper ini have been out over 5 years now.
i feel we all start healing at different speeds depending on how much hurt we went through in exiting ; and how much we've educated ourselves about how and why we were sucked in by a mind control cult.
at first i felt anger towards the organization , but after learning about mind control within 3 years of leaving the cult i felt sorry for those who are still trapped inside the witnesses being deceived.
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abbydear
Hello Flipper,
I'm new here, but have been lurking for awhile. I have been out for a couple of years and have moved on for sure. My spiritual life has been a mess. I am trying to pull it together somewhat, time will tell.
My loss of faith in God has been the hardest issue in my life. I can't seem to find a place in "Christendom", nor do I fit in with atheists. So, for now I am just existing in "don't know" land. I know that I am not alone, so that is comforting.
abby
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could somebody post about the pain of one in and one out marriage??
by oompa ingeeze it has been awhile....... and robert7 and wife newlite are sooooo dammm lucky......nice fam and friends too.....thanks for the awesome party guys.........oompa.
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abbydear
you know and feel WAY too much for a newbie
oompa, I have been lurking for a bit. However, JW experience is something that I know and feel. Why I am here.
Being in a spiritually unbalanced relationship is rough. I did it for years, I didn't make it. I am assuming you are in one too. This site must offer so much support, I wish I had found this years ago. However, it just would have ended sooner. Endings are hard.
abby
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What Was The Very First Thing That Came Across Your Eyes That Lead You Down The Road To Doubt?
by Yizuman inany of you remember what was exactly the first thing that crossed your eyeballs to lead you into doubting the wts?.
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abbydear
For me it was bringing a bible study to meeting. We had such fun with our studies, but after sitting through a meeting she looked at me and said "you've gotta be kidding". I had no answer. What could I say? To get everlasting life you have to become a drone? Oh and by the way, wear a skirt that covers your tattoo next time.
abby
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could somebody post about the pain of one in and one out marriage??
by oompa ingeeze it has been awhile....... and robert7 and wife newlite are sooooo dammm lucky......nice fam and friends too.....thanks for the awesome party guys.........oompa.
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abbydear
Pain???? Post about the pain??? Okay, it's painful.
If you are the one in you are in constant grief and anxiety about your mates spiritual demise. Meaning that you know that they are DOOMED to eternal destruction and you will not be able to live forever with them in the paradise. You, of course will have to find someone else in paradise, but for now you don't think about that. You are TRAPPED (in love or not) in a commitment to a person who has turned their back on Jehovah. With every breath you take you want to bring them back. You might be the only one who could do this, you feel the burden of blood guilt. Day after day.
If you are the one out you slip in and out of real life. If the marriage is tied to family and friends still in, then you skirt around relationships on some superficial level just to try to keep peace. Your trueness and depth you try to hide from them all. If you get good at this, you start feeling hollow. When you get a chance to actually be yourself around someone it messes with your head. You try to find meaning in whatever neutral zones there are in the marriage, ignoring the elephant to the best of your ability. The marriage bed can become a binder, something to try to keep things intact; like trying to hang a picture with duck tape, just put a little more on that corner and it will stay up.
Painful, yes. Crazy, yes. Hard, definitely. Worth it? For some.
abby