Posts by creativhoney

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The WTS will never have ''new light'' on shunning policy.

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watchtower society will never be blessed with "new light" on their policy of extremist shunning of former members, thereby liberating thousands-both within and out of the organization from the heart-sickening anguish imposed by this cruel, unjust, and unscriptural dogma..

creativhoney

Ah. I get it now/

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What do dubs dance like?

by highdose in

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friends

at weddings or partys, when the lights go down and the music gets turned up?.

in my experiance they normaly did a slow motion walk on the spot or a kinda rigor mortis.

i think i was a rare one as i tended to wiggle and move my body like a woman can;) .... and yes i got "spoken" to about it.... what was your experiance?.

creativhoney

dirty dancing is seriously frowned upon.

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What do dubs dance like?

by highdose in

jw
friends

at weddings or partys, when the lights go down and the music gets turned up?.

in my experiance they normaly did a slow motion walk on the spot or a kinda rigor mortis.

i think i was a rare one as i tended to wiggle and move my body like a woman can;) .... and yes i got "spoken" to about it.... what was your experiance?.

creativhoney

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Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

by creativhoney in

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they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

she says she is going to just go and blag.

- even attend a few meetings if necessary.

creativhoney

Hi this is the dreaded sister on now my sis left this accoun logged in !

What has happened is i nhave innocently said to a couple of friends that i am concerned about links to the occult ! He He lol! Due to the pyramid memorial stone next to the masonic buildings right next to CT russels headstone ! and that the society says we are to flee from the occult so why have the wt society left it for all to see! Surely they should destroy this n it states ct russel is a 32/33 degree mason etc! apart from that which i havent mentioned i have seen countless subliminal pictures in publications and then going on to read more about how the society was set up i just no longer believe its from God!

I have a strong belief in most of the teachings but this flaw really bothered me! Most people dont even know about it until they have an issue then start to question is all the guilt worth it! Whis is what happened to me! I have had so many job opportunities in singing etc and i have had to turn them down, never got educated because i believed there was no point ! wasted 3 yrs on a guy who was not serious and then took all the gossip and name calling and ostracism most of my life for not quite fitting in as i settled for doing my own dj/singing business!

Situation is now i dumped my fella, stopped going , bumped into an old friend who i completely fallen for and that is going so well and has been for last six months! Elders not mentioned this to me so hopefully they don't know! I would be more than willing to submit to the disfellowshipping if i really believed they had Gods holy spirit as an organization but i dont and i dont see myself going back to all that pressure and fake fickle conditional friendship / love. But i desperately dont want it to become a hard and fast rule that my family cannot associate or talk with me, they dont bother any way so really i should not be bothered , but it still hurts. I do think this is mostly down to peer pressure.

Ultimately i think they are just hoping to see me happy and settled for once and sorted out! I think emotionally the religion has set me back cos i have spent years being screwed up and drinking a lot then going off my head due to anger about being supressed or feeling not good enough! At the moment i dont have to put up with any of that! The elders say if i want to remain a JW they wont DF me and no witnesses will have to come to the JC as i'm now attending. Im going to try and make out that i was simply scared of the stuff i read and asked a couple of friends for help ! My so called friends who the elders asked to go into the JC refutely deny accusing me of apostasty ! So im not sure wot to expect ! Do u think they have more up their sleeve ! Way i look at this is if they are gonna do it stuff em i cant be bothered listening to all the scriptual reasons for it twisted to suit. But if i have a shot of not being DFd then i will try cos i dont want mum to have to bear the upset !

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Please help? My sis has been summoned to a JC without a prior meeting.

by creativhoney in

jw
friends

they have caught up with my sis, they want her to come to a meeting on monday.

she says she is going to just go and blag.

- even attend a few meetings if necessary.

creativhoney

update, they called this morning and she asked on what charges she was actually being called in on. they said Apostasy. - they said they have three people who have testified to it and if she doesnt go to the JC they will bring the people in

they have used my unbaptized nephew and his wife who dont have a lot of 'knowledge' and questioned them, only they dont know that what she said is apostasy - the elders said they asked them and then translated it... devious.

she phoned our mum, and mum was like, Ive got too much on my plate. (usual cop out answer)

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how do I banish negative thinking?

by creativhoney in

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the kind that keeps me awake at night.. i feel so sad at the moment.

stupid man trouble the one aspect in life im not strong in, the guy i have loved for two years.

hes on a date today.

creativhoney

HIghdose. yea I have McKenna. and some books

Voideater. I love that philosophy - accept that you will always love someone and move on.. all i get usually from people is why do you love him its not worth it.. and thats no good, it doesnt change anything.. if someones bad behaviour just automatically stopped you loving someone, there would be no painful breakups.

and I want to say to you all, I think the support on here is awesome. x

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how do I banish negative thinking?

by creativhoney in

jw
friends

the kind that keeps me awake at night.. i feel so sad at the moment.

stupid man trouble the one aspect in life im not strong in, the guy i have loved for two years.

hes on a date today.

creativhoney

HIghdose. yea I have McKenna. and some books

Voideater. I love that philosophy - accept that you will always love someone and move on.. all i get usually from people is why do you love him its not worth it.. and thats no good, it doesnt change anything.. if someones bad behaviour just automatically stopped you loving someone, there would be no painful breakups.

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