So I had a blast shaking hands and exchanging laughs with the elders who were always very friendly and happy to see me.
my sister asked me to help her paint her house one saturday and several witnesses dropped by that day and they kept smiling at me and calling me "Sister so-and-so", even though i'm not. it was funny to see them assume i was one of them... i used to quake in fear of elders and now i felt..evolved.