i never feel guilty for having it good... 'cause when i was a child i lived in poverty and among abuse, and was homeless for a time, living in the family car for a few days (an old Rambler station wagon) or in shelters, enduring all the discomforts, inconveniences and humiliations that entails... i give $, toys & food to social agencies often, and to organizations like the world wildlife fund...i seem to care most about children and animals because they don't have a voice. sometimes though, in my travels, i'll run into someone down on their luck and give them money and don't ask them any questions. the look in their eyes is enough...it makes you happy and sad at the same time. so i guess my comment is live each day and respond to what your heart tells you... that's what i do. and don't feel bad for having a nice life... i'm sure you worked really hard to get there.