The case is over for me about the letters and so on. It was very traumatic when going on. They are so holly, they can not condescend to talk the case out far less show regret and apologize.
Actually I am very glad it happened. It forced me to look for answers of what I really was involved with. I found jwfacts.com, ordered CoC and here I am.
I am still "in", but stopped meeting attendance two years ago. They don't bother me, but I have to watch my back.