I just happened to catch dr. Phil today and I realize it's a replay from months perhaps years ago I don't know but that title is exactly what he said with reference to Watchtower governing body
" if I go somewhere and my wife and family aren't welcome, then I'm not welcome. somebody tells me that I am to shun my wife and children? they can kiss my ass" complete quote
Okay so he did not use the words governing body but is of course implied since they are the ones doing the telling