My opinion ...Lady Lee wants victims to look at their situation as something you can recover from and wants so much for families to see there is hope. I respect and needed to hear that from someone who has been there and knows what she is talking about.
I for one was frightened by what NLHC posted... I know he/her meant no harm and was only giving their experence of what they see but I can see how LL would be offended and want to strongly offer her experence as well.
I'm only a few years into the nightmare of my child being molested by a fellow JW, and trying to do all I can to make our family get back to some kind of normal (not working very well) I prefer to hear positive outlooks. I mean, I now down deep inside that we have no way of knowing how this will effect our child years down the line but we really need to think positive and hope that rubs of on our children.