longgone
I think scratchme's advice would be good before you've done what you've done. But not now - returning to the vomit you have left behind now will increase your anxiety levels and put you in the path of the lunatic pioneer sister once again. Run Forrest Run! Pour your feelings out to those who know the score in your family and on here.
I was an elder for over 25 years. I've done scores of judicial and appeal committees and had different pathetic titles over the years including PO/WT/Secretary. You cannot be DFD for telling an elder to leave you alone. However strongly. You cannot be DFD for taking out a restraining order. Do you need a restraining order? Just shut the door on her and don't take her phone calls. Forever.
Use this stupid sister and her stalking of you to your advantage. Ignore every attempt by any elder to engage you in conversation. Firmly tell them to leave you alone.
USE REVERSE THEOCRATIC WARFARE.
When JW hierarchy are dragged in front of courts (like the ARC investigation into their disgusting child abuse record) they lie like a rug and in their literature equate such behaviour with Rahab and the spies and hiding printing presses from the Nazis.
Learn to lie to them without feeling guilty. Rahab protected the spies AND HER FAMILY. You are protecting your sanity and your family relationships from the mind controlled cultists that will throw you under the locomotive in their service not to God but to the GB and its Golden Calf jwdotborg!
Rant over!