or his visual stimulation is only peaked due to an addiction to what he sees online, this is the only thing that really gets his equipment functioning possibly... the issue is not what she looks like, it is the fantasy that he could have built up in his mind. he may need some help. i am sure if she caught him online, it has not been his first time to a site watching.
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what does no sex mean?
by brainwashed-from-birth inneed some advise.
my friend has been with her boyfriend for almost 4 years, and for 3 of them the sex has been getting less and less.
they are down to around twice a year.
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who was your first non jw friend
by rockmehardplace insince i was not raised in the "truth", i have been able to reconnect with many older friends that i left behind.
one in particular is very close to me and we now get together about once a week for dinner or drinks.
his wife and my wife have also become very close as well.
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rockmehardplace
since i was not raised in the "truth", i have been able to reconnect with many older friends that i left behind. one in particular is very close to me and we now get together about once a week for dinner or drinks. his wife and my wife have also become very close as well.
who was yoru first non jw friend?
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The moment you know you will die, too
by dgp inat some point in life, everyone outside of the wtbts realizes that death if a fact of life.
no one gets to accept that fact easily, and the moment when you realize you will die, too, usually comes all of a sudden and takes you by surprise.
when you were a jw, did you have such a moment, even though the society told you you would never die?
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btw - we are both fairly young - under 40
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The moment you know you will die, too
by dgp inat some point in life, everyone outside of the wtbts realizes that death if a fact of life.
no one gets to accept that fact easily, and the moment when you realize you will die, too, usually comes all of a sudden and takes you by surprise.
when you were a jw, did you have such a moment, even though the society told you you would never die?
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rockmehardplace
i always thought i would die and never live forever unless brought back which was a long shot even when i was a good jw. my wife used to always talk about how she looked forward to the new system and never dying. over the last few years, she no longer says that. she nows talks about "paradise" as if she is going to be resurrected into it and always says that she hopes jehovah keeps her in his memory.
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Typical JW Response
by Magwitch inmy 76 year old mother and her 94 year old mother (my grandmother) are still regular pioneering.
if anyone should understand helping the less fortunate it should be these life time pioneers.
however, this is a conversation i had with my them yesterday.... me: mom, the girls (my 2 teenage daughters) and i have volunteered to serve breakfast and lunch at the soup kitchen new year's eve.
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rockmehardplace
i once did a community clean up project at a local park with local businesses and some local politicians and i got dragged through the ringer for doing it by the elders several years ago. they said i should have focused on the preaching work and not that because cleaning the only be temporary and the new system is forever. last time i went by, park still looks nice. new system? still not here.
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Working for a JW, what a horrible experience...
by HappyGuy inone of the things that made me start doubting the wtbts and jws was the way jws treat their jw employees.. i worked for jws several times.
the experience was always the same.. 1. pay was less than the going market rate for the same work at "worldly" companies.. 2. there were no benefits of any kind, no paid holidays, no sick time, no overtime, no insurance.. 3. whenever possible the jw forced the jw employees to pay their own company related expenses like gas, pager, company uniform, etc.. 4. any attempt to discuss the poor working conditions was always responded to with "but you get to make all the meetings and you get to go to the assemblies and you get to work for brothers.
" and, if you said "i would go to meetings regardless of who i worked for" and pushed back on that answer then they started in on your "loyalty" and you were unspritual if you questioned a "brother" and were not "loyal" to your employer.. 5. any attempt to find another job was met with harassment, being told you could not give the jw employer as a reference, being threatened with lawsuits, etc.. 6. the jw employers themselves were lazy and would not do the things they expected of their jw employees.. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------.
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sorry treadnh2o. i missed your post. sucked being on either side of the jw fence, especially the boss side.
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Working for a JW, what a horrible experience...
by HappyGuy inone of the things that made me start doubting the wtbts and jws was the way jws treat their jw employees.. i worked for jws several times.
the experience was always the same.. 1. pay was less than the going market rate for the same work at "worldly" companies.. 2. there were no benefits of any kind, no paid holidays, no sick time, no overtime, no insurance.. 3. whenever possible the jw forced the jw employees to pay their own company related expenses like gas, pager, company uniform, etc.. 4. any attempt to discuss the poor working conditions was always responded to with "but you get to make all the meetings and you get to go to the assemblies and you get to work for brothers.
" and, if you said "i would go to meetings regardless of who i worked for" and pushed back on that answer then they started in on your "loyalty" and you were unspritual if you questioned a "brother" and were not "loyal" to your employer.. 5. any attempt to find another job was met with harassment, being told you could not give the jw employer as a reference, being threatened with lawsuits, etc.. 6. the jw employers themselves were lazy and would not do the things they expected of their jw employees.. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------.
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rockmehardplace
on the flip side. i had a jw work for me once. i would rather be shot in the head than do that again. we gave time off work by length ofemployment. she would wait till the last minute to put in for the district convention every year and one year she came to me a few days before and said she needed off. i told her the time off was booked up but if someone wanted to switch she could try that. she told me it was my problem as boss and she was not coming in and if i forced the issue, she would take me to the human resource department. in the end, she quit but it was bad. to this day, i avoid her like she has leprosy.
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my beard looks good
by rockmehardplace insince my fade, i have decided to do what all jw men and some jw women do.
i have grown a beard.
i have more compliments on it from people i work with and come in contact with than ever before.
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since my fade, i have decided to do what all jw men and some jw women do. i have grown a beard. why? because i can. i have more compliments on it from people i work with and come in contact with than ever before. guess i don't fit the cookie cutter cheap suit clean shaven face i once did. i still wear the cheap suits.
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Enough with the favorite songs
by JeffT inwhat are the ones that sound like fingernails on the blackboard, the ones that make you want to pull the gun out from under the seat and shoot the radio in your car?.
a few of mine:.
spirit in the sky.
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i hate that lady gaga. anything she sings gets turned. anything rap. hate rap. especially tupac. could not stand him.
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Assembly Call: PLEASE Come Back & Help Us Out---Ministerial Servants & Elders!
by minimus ini was told they were practically begging those elders and servants who are no longer "being used" to help carry the load once again.
these people are unbelievable!.
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rockmehardplace
outlaw has it right. i am made of flesh. not toilet paper.