Doing the same here, focus on authentic bible message. When the WT article emphasises the obedience towards the FDS, I comment something like: "We obey because we can trust and proof to ourselves, that the advice is firmly based on the bible" (hoping somebody will really do this and wake up...)
Whenever they try to push rules, i try to balence it by stressing the importance of principles coupled with freedom and personal responsibility.
I dont know, whether some notice my more liberal approach, or if it falls on deaf ears, like "darthfader"mentioned.
Recently though, I got positive feedback from one sister, she, being fully in mentally, has difficulties with some "rules" and is pretty opne minded.
Anyway, atm it is the only reasonable way for me to stick through and still kind of have a good conscience, and minimize the hypocrite in me....
Oh how often I wish I could just walk out.......sigh...