Posts by freewilly01

I make sure that my kids and relatives and close friends know that I am all about unconditional love and support no matter what. A love that has nothing to do with performance of any kind . A love that is non-judgmental. It exits because of respect for eachother and isn't based on some scriptural text or influenced by some talk at an assembly.

I AM STILL EXPLORING WITH WAYS TO SHOW IT ANY SUGGESTIONS?

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No natural affection? Jehovahs Witnesses fulfill this scripture

by jambon1 in

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anyone who can turn their back on their flesh & blood sons and daughters, mothers and fathers fulfill this prophecy perfectly.. people who do this are utterly unloving & cruel.

it has lead thousands of people to feel issolated, alone & in many cases suicidal.

how can such a thing originate with god?.

freewilly01

Def a dangerous religion. Years and years later I am still working on repairing and appreciating family relationships that have suffered due to this barbaric , mean belief of the JW's. When your old and sick who will be there for you? Definitely not your so called bro and sis in the WTS its your family that will be your blood and nothing can replace that ever.

I really have come to regret the years that went by when I had no contact with my family members who were df'd, I'll never be able to make up for that. I am really appreciative that my family members who were df'd at a very young age didn't take their own life, but struggled and made it on their own. They showed that they were way stronger than the WTS could ever have made them.

They take the scrip to the extreme that " there exists a friend sticking closer than a bro" or something like that, taking one text and blowing it out of proportion they are really good at that.

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One Day of "The Real Life"

by 84hagueW in

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came across this blogpost..... these are not my words.

"a circuit overseer in the woodburn congregation said that the reason so.

many of our brothers are disfellowshipped isn't because of wrong doing,.

freewilly01

Sounds like she is really in Hell! and was involved in Satanic worship and lying and is being punished by having a life like Dante's inferno, the same thing day after day for eternity frick!

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Emailed Talk From Governing Body Member Last Weekend

by tryingtoexit in

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what's good a-ebody??

just thought i'd share this email with yall real quick.

it still amazes me that i was a jehovah's witness for 27 years and never thought twice about these types of talks other than i need to make sure my act is together when the end comes, and now i can't even read/hear it without getting mad.

freewilly01

Maybe he is like a Bro I know from the headquarters who takes personal donations from publishers when he visits third world counties as a guest speaker and uses them to fly his family around on holidays? Hes never had so much cash. I think his wife has altered his pockets to be very deep so as to hide the bulges from the money he has stashed.........what you receive freely give freely? yeah sure!

If he's living a head quarters he is eating better than any of us could possibly eat and he has no responsibilities , that sounds like a pretty awesome deal. He should be the last to counsel anyone on materialism or finances. Has he had any education or is he qualified to counsel people in life and death matters?. Why not perpetuate the lies, its all about saving ass first

His manipulative tone and downward preaching seems to make him elevated as if he knows more or has inside information because of being part of the GB..... thats a joke. Having three kids only means that he has sold out personally on more than one occasion and manipulated his family along the way.

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Official visit from two local elders one fine Sunday morning

by SnakesInTheTower in

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well, it finally happened.

a week ago sunday my fiancee and i were sitting in the living room drinking coffee and watching the morning talking heads when we heard the crunch of tires on the gravel in the driveaway, about 10:30 or so.

we looked at each other with that "are you expecting anyone?

freewilly01

No doubt Co's visit was going to be in a couple of weeks and they were in the inactive file looking for visits, I think that they can still count time for those visits also, who says you have to answer the door?

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How Can an Elder Fade Successfully?

by tjlibre in

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im working on my exit strategy out of the watchtower org.

ive set my mind to be out by the end of 2010 or mid 2011. .

id like to avoid getting df and disassociating my self is also an undesirable option.

freewilly01

Enlist the help of a confident Psychiatrist or Psychologist to ensure that you come away from the Borg as a full whole person!

Work with him or her on an exit strategy that will minimize the aggravation for you and your family.

I called my exit strategy DELICATE DETACHMENT.... something I have used in relationships ever since my exit from the Borg. Get strong phsically ,Work out and leave as a strong person not a weak depressed person.

Minimize your fear of intimidation and know your making the most awesome best decision in your life.....................Freedom of mind is such a huge turn on!!! I love it!

Step down as soon as possible,Don't give any previous warning of your decision before you step down or talk to any other elder . Wait till the last part of the elders meeting and state that you have made a decision due to health and family issues to step down.

The circle jerk group actually asked a few questions which I gave broadly vague answers to. I was prepared for the grilling from each one as the questions of Why? Why? were asked be each individual. Some were visibly excited at the prospect of my position opening up....and could care less and never even called me ever after I left ahhhh true friends!

It was the most exhilirating thrilling experience to close the door behind myself and leave all the negativity forever and really enjoy my wife and family like a real man should.

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The Final Nail in the Coffin of your JW Career

by jookbeard in

i know there has been countless threads on this, some say the paedophile scandal, others say the blood ban, some say the conduct of their elders, others say the petty rules etc.

but there is usually one thing that seals every one's fate, tips you over the edge,finishes you off.i was fading, very closely to full inactivity, off the book study list, and very sporadic meeting attendance, which took me to the very last time i set foot in my kingdumb hall, this is what happened;.

it was the memorial of 1994, i hadn't set foot in the place for months, but thought a show at the memorial would keep the wife happy and the elders at bay for a bit longer, i drove to the hall being careful not to get there too early(the wife was already there and had saved me a seat) i walked up to my seat about mid way in the hall so a lot could see me, it was packed probably about 200 there, as i sat down ( about 3/4 mins to go) a sister in front of me turned around and said"we haven't seen you in a long time!

freewilly01

It started one day when my son was very small maybe about three or four. I was going door to door and I called at this door where someone confronted me about my son. How could you bring your boy here and try to manipulate his little mind. My answer at the time was..... dont worry we will be in the pool together most of the afternoon he has a great life! But then I thought about how I was manipulated and how horrible it was to be raised a JW being called " Hey Jehovah " from the start of the walk home to the finish! I thought about how my guts were in total chaos at the begining of the school year when I had to hand the teacher a note from my parents asking that I be able to stand outside the classroom during the lords prayer. I thought about all the guilt I grew up with as a young person during the " bloom of youth "and how perverted it was that anyone would be interested in whether I wacked off regularly or not.......

My son has grown and knows how much we love him, we could never do that to our kid ever, so fortunately we left before the damage was done.

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To all the newbies: How I've have adapted to life outside the Org

by tooktheredpill in

i havent been active in the forum for some time, but i keep reading your comments every few weeks.

ive noticed that there are many new members.

welcome to jwd!!!

freewilly01

Being FREE is such a huge turn on! It is worth all the hassles and misery to be free from the Borg! Never having to ever prepare and give a manipulative controlling talk and feel pressured for any crazy reason is the absolute BEST! Not feeling as your a Robotic follower, and now that U are just normal, and happy and have the balls to stand up for yourself is amazying.

Life now is worth living, the dread, and the depression of never meeting your own or their expectations is gone forever Whew!

Its a balsy , strong, miracle to be another one to leave and never look back ever!

We should all give ourselves a huge pat on the back and be looking for ways to reward ourselves in this life for what we have had to put up with during our lives..........................Slap Slap!!!!

Its a modern day miracle to be among those who have left for sure.

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Non-Bible Believers: What verses still have value to you?

by Open mind in

ok, if a bible believer wants to join in too, please refrain from citing john 3:16 or verse like it that clearly call for a christian perspective to be appreciated.. .

i'm looking for kernels of wisdom that transcend religions and the necessity of faith.. .

to get things started:.

freewilly01

Not sure really if I believe this but this thought comes into mind after all those years and years of painful volunteering and timewasting, maybe someone did (godlike in the universe?) or wont forget that those hours and hours I did have some good intentions even though they were also motivated by selfish gain and acceptance of the Borg! frick who knows heb 6;10 (had to look it up on the internet, how quickly you forget)

God is not so unrighteous as to forget your work...............