advantage-amazing food at witness get togethers and being part of a larger community
disadvantage- its all conditional and cramped seats at assemblys lol
this earlier topic [why do it feel bad about my children leaving jw religion?
] is what causes me to ask this question:.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/jw/friends/208031/1/why-do-i-feel-bad-about-my-children-leaving-the-jw-religion.
advantage-amazing food at witness get togethers and being part of a larger community
disadvantage- its all conditional and cramped seats at assemblys lol
cause i see a bunch of inactive doing disfellowshipping things and its known by the elders and the elders aren't doing anything because they are inactive.... so, just wondering if the rules have changed, or there is more of a loophole somewhere that wasn't there before?.
I think its all about how much of a "threat" they deem you to be to others. If you lay low dont associate with witnesses and are discreet/dont talk about your experinces or criticize them in any way they'll leave you alone
did you study beforehand?
alot?
did you only "study" while you are reading the paragraphs during the wt study and still make great comments?.
We didnt study often before and I made awesome comments I was known throughout the circuit ,sick people on the phone lines would ask where I was if they didnt hear my comments. I was ballin oughtta control.yea I wish I was kidding but i was a total keener and I liked the attention
do you miss the "friends"?.
do you miss the meetings?.
do you miss field service?.
I miss the food at congrecation get togethers Old sisters make the best stuff ever o the swedish meatballs the nanaimo bars!! and sure i can make those things myself now but it was funner when other ppl did the work and it was free :-(
so i dvrd the last couple of episodes of big love.
wasn't able to watch them at first broadcast the last couple of weeks.. we've watched this series from it's start and haven't missed an episode.
as the cultishness of the compound and even bill's family became more central to the story...and the off-hand criticisms of the 'real' mormon church are leveled, i sense mild anxiety at times while watching the show.
I feel the same way about the show Ive watched every episode now and I feel like its as close to our experince as has been on tv yet.I can relate to all the wives but mostly sarah the daughter just trying to get out and be normal while still having the craziness clinging to her. Thats my life in a nutshell to
what are some books you may have read that have changed your life?.
two of mine are: .
1. tao te ching version by steven mitchell.
1984 -george orwell
a fine balance-rohidin mystry( sp?)
Ehtics-Aristotle
The first two I read in grade 10 and they really opened by mind to what really started my intellectual journey to leave the WTS and the last I read in my freshman year of university and adopted a lot of its values or felt it stated the values id personally had for a long time.
walked away 11 years ago.
seeing if there is anyone out there.
thanks .
pm coming at ya
i'm so excited, im going out to buy my first christmas tree today!
it will be small, but it will be great.
since im still living separate from my jw hubby, im going to take advantage of the freedom.
YAY for us!! im getting a tree for this first time this year to.Itll be a smallish one in my bacheloretter pad and I probably wont get any presents but im happy just to be having it.It makes me feel free .Im as excited as a little girl
i just got a call from jamie this afternoon, saying she found her husband in the bathroom, not breathing.
i've not had the chance to speak to her, she left me a voice mail.
but i'm very worried.
Love to jaimie!!! youve always been a great support to us were all rooting for your husbands speedy recovery!
i'm a long-time lurker (and hopefully successful fader) who finally took the jump and registered on jwd.
thank you all for the great information over the years!.
as you can tell by my username, i'm a big weezer fan.
I love weezer but that creeps me out I wont be able to buy that album