I find it easy to flirt and charm... Just talk with confidence, and say what it is you mean... Simple... :)
My girlfriend lovesme very much, probablybecause I'm not just after her body like all her past guys, but am opening her heart and helping her feel things she never felt before... The upbringing helped in as much as I know what a leading question is and can usually engage her in civil conversation and use a lot of reason on her.. :D
But yes, in a social network I am nervous and dont usually trust others all that much... Though i have learned to take responcability for my actions and lead myself... :)