Well, hate to say it, but this is the Internet. The only sure way to maintain covert status would be to never mention any details about yourself that could be traced back to you. I would be in for a major battle at home if the Mrs. read even half of my posts/threads here. But that's the risk I'm taking, and while of course I'd prefer not to be compromised, at the risk of paraphrasing Moshe, and given that I'm a doormat myself, getting outed in that regard could actually be the best thing, at least the more honest thing for me.
Ultimately, stating who you are or how you feel isn't the real problem, it's the people who are exploiting that, violating your right to think and speak freely that are the problem. I'm just glad that being sd-7/Christopher (Come at me bro! I'm callin' you out!) is kind of a moot point, since I'm on the outside now anyway.
--sd-7