Posts by Heartbreaker

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What is your specialty dish?

by serenitynow! in

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Heartbreaker

One of three actually

1) Spicy Crab Dip served with toasted baguette slices

2) Asian Ramen Noodle Slaw

3) Chili Rellenos and homemade corn tortillas

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Speaking of dreaming of the KH

by Heartbreaker in

just last night i had a weird one.

first, it was as if i was in school, i wanted to feel like i belonged in the classroom, but i couldn't follow the conversation, and it just didn't seem right.

it was elementary school for petes sake, it just was blurry and weird.

gutted - its July, are you growing your goatee yet?

by Soldier77 in

from my previous thread on allowing beards/goatee's and the pact that you brought up.

i've started my goatee this past weekend!

came into work this morning and one guy i worked with looks at me and goes, "wtf is that?

I recently got my nose pierced, and I absolutely LOVE it....and I guarantee that I'm older than CHG. I get either a lot of compliments on it, or no comments at all. No weird looks, or looks like it doesn't suit me.

Go for it!

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Speaking of dreaming of the KH

by Heartbreaker in

just last night i had a weird one.

first, it was as if i was in school, i wanted to feel like i belonged in the classroom, but i couldn't follow the conversation, and it just didn't seem right.

it was elementary school for petes sake, it just was blurry and weird.

Heartbreaker

Just last night I had a weird one. First, it was as if I was in school, I wanted to feel like I belonged in the classroom, but I couldn't follow the conversation, and it just didn't seem right. It was elementary school for petes sake, it just was blurry and weird. Then we were in theater seating, and it was a meeting that was like a convention.

We were all sitting there, it was the last day. Apparently during this last day at the finality of the convention we were to all pass around over our heads these identical gift bags. The contents of the bags were all different, but were to all keep passing them around until they were so mixed up, and we ended up with a random bag. People started taking two or three, or for each individual member of their family. Some were consuming the contents and throwing the bags down. Others were just leaving quickly. At this point I had become frustrated because the gift bag idea was mine (???) and I didn't end up with one, not only that, but my large family, none of us had one. I looked to my mom and said "I told you this was a selfish loveless Organization. I was right to not want to be any part of it" and I hastily left. I couldnt remember where I parked, but I tried to leave anyway. It was so very frustrating!

OK, disect!

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Heath Insurance recommendations?

by sweet pea in

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currently we don't have family health insurance here in the us.

could you please recommend a good company/plan that deals with the self-insured?.

Heartbreaker

I sell a LOT of GoldenRule, and Assurant. Aetna has good pricing, but I don't like them as a company. Blue Cross doesn't have to put you in a pool with people in your own state, which makes you vulnerable for cancelation. If they decide to cancel you because of a claim, you could find yourself now uninsurable.

Three important things to look for with self insurance.

1) How large is my group (Obviously a group of 4 will be cancelled faster than a group of 6K)

2) What is the rating for my insurance company as far as stability of company and claims paid

3) Do they have an accident rider? A lot of time the only reason you'll meet a higher deductible is for an accident or critical illness. Some companies (like Assurant) will have a Suite Solutions product that will be set to match your deductible.

Will you have to make payments if you have a 3k deductible? Then why not make it 10K, have longer payments, but lower monthly premium, and try to match your deductible with an accident rider.

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Severe abdominal pain

by Heartbreaker in

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how come pain the middle of the night is always more scary than during the daytime?

i was woke up from a hydrocodone sleep, with pain in my very upper abdomen and middle back.

it feels like i'm just pumped full of gas and tightness and pain.

Heartbreaker

Thanks to each and every one of you for replying, and being concerned with me!

I'm feeling much better, actually slept the whole night last night! The first night was when I posted, second night I had horrible gas pains and intestine upset. That lasted about 3 hours as well. Last night was bliss :)

I spoke with my husband, and if it happens again, we are going in for sure. We have 25 days until we can be added to his medical insurance. (new job start) Ironically, I'm a licensed insurance agent, but can't write myself because I've had melanoma skin cancer within the last 10 years. Isn't that great? Good ole USA at work. Here's the hoping I can hold off until we are covered.

Thanks again, to each of you :)

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My sucky situation

by brotherdan in

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hi guys,.

sadly some of them had been in bethel for 5 - 10 years and were still cleaning toilets.. after about 2 years of it i couldn't do it anymore.

i always knew something wasn't quite right with this organization.

Heartbreaker

I'm assuming that she's had that baby now, since you are back to talking about the Org with her? Having been pregnant many times in life, it's not the easiest situation to deal with, your emotions are all over the map, and it's an out of control feeling, being a host to another human. Not all women are glowing beauties lol....having said all of that, she was wise in asking you to back off till she knew she was out of that circumstance.

Now that she's not pregnant, it's not over. She feels like mother bear and that she has to protect her kids if you won't (leaving the ORG has been taught to her that you are NOT protecting or keeping her and the kids in best interests) You have to understand that she DOESN'T have doubts. She was fine in her little world, looking forward to spending eternity in paradise. You are threatening her hope and her dream.

WE know her hope and dream is a lie, but try telling that to HER if she doesn't want to see it.

My advise is the same as others, seek legal council. Try to make a truce with her. Try to ask her for her to disprove a point at a time for you, to help you see it as the truth again. Shelve it and don't speak about it ever again, and don't go to the meetings with her. Just become mum on the whole thing. Whatever it takes to keep the peace, and try to reach this woman I'm assuming you love greatly.

If you love her, then you should do whatever it takes to keep her, UP TO THE POINT of living a lie. You wouldn't ask her to do that, and she can't or shouldn't ask you to do it either. Its not fair.

I hope the best for you here, and welcome.

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Audacity

by Heartbreaker in

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i don't pretend to understand what motivates my husband when it comes to his family.

he's completely fine ignoring, even hating mine, but his he's wishy washy.

(they have completely shunned me, but still try to be kind to him and our children, blaming me for tearing their poor family member away from jah).

Heartbreaker

I don't pretend to understand what motivates my husband when it comes to his family. He's completely fine ignoring, even hating mine, but his he's wishy washy. (They have completely shunned me, but still try to be kind to him and our children, blaming ME for tearing their poor family member away from Jah)

His sister called today and said she's going canoeing, or camping, or whatever, and proceeds to ask to borrow our camping gear. He says yes. Then he asks ME if I can get the stuff out. I tell him HELL NO. In fact, I won't even BE here when she comes, and neither will he. He's working, and I'm taking my "Jezebel Whore" ass out for a coffee and some book reading at the local Barnes and Nobles. It IS however packed up right next to all of our Xmas stuff. hehe

Screw em all.

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Severe abdominal pain

by Heartbreaker in

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how come pain the middle of the night is always more scary than during the daytime?

i was woke up from a hydrocodone sleep, with pain in my very upper abdomen and middle back.

it feels like i'm just pumped full of gas and tightness and pain.

Heartbreaker

The pain was directly between my back, and well my front. A solid dull, can't get away from it ache and it would seem to get worse (probably with my panic and increasing frustration) and then just be dull. Literally where my rib cage stops, directly in there and up some, all the way straight through. Today it's just sore there, not the same pain there was. Super tired (it's only 6:45 pm) and so afraid to sleep tonight. :(

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Severe abdominal pain

by Heartbreaker in

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how come pain the middle of the night is always more scary than during the daytime?

i was woke up from a hydrocodone sleep, with pain in my very upper abdomen and middle back.

it feels like i'm just pumped full of gas and tightness and pain.

Heartbreaker

Think about it....can I use vodka to accomplish the same thing? I think I'd enjoy that better.

I KID! I KID! (maybe)