Depends what you call "normal" really. For many non-cult guys one night stands are not something to be avoided. It's really up to you what you want from him. Only do it if you're ok with the one night stand too. It might develop into something more, but you can't know for sure, not in such short time.
Posts by teel
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he only wants me once... is this normal?
by highdose ini recently started dating this guy, tonight he wants to come over and spend the night with me.
but he absourlutly refuses to make any other plans to see me beyond that!.
is this normal?
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Do YOU donate blood?
by Quillsky inif you do, what are your motivations?.
if you don't, why not?.
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teel
Thanks 2014, I'm a bit far from UK but the info on the site should help me expand my knowledge at least.
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Do YOU donate blood?
by Quillsky inif you do, what are your motivations?.
if you don't, why not?.
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How do you handle JW encounters?
by Girlie inso this past saturday, i stopped over at my parents' home to take care of some business.
as my brother dropped me off in front of the house, lo and behold, the witnesses from my previous congregation were parked right in front of my parents' home.
damn..... they were in a car group working a frequent rv who lives next door to my folks.
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teel
Good advices here. One of my resolve during my ongoing fade is to never give in to their rules of shunning, so I will always say "hi" to them, and if they're up for some chat, I'll chat. I haven't been questioned yet about my lack of presence (except by a nosy elder, but that's different), so these tips are welcome.
It's quite funny to see some JWs reaction who know I'm not attending. The other day as I was walking home from work, one JW from my cong was out working on his car. He saw me coming, and he was simply lost, turned left, turned right, you could see his dilemma, he didn't know what to do and there was noone around to direct his actions. It was simply priceless . In the end he responded to my "hi".
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You have just won 10,000 Euros - Hmm - no thanks.
by The Scotsman inwinner of 10,000 ryanair scratch card eats winning ticketpassengers asked to vote for which charity should receive this 10,000 prize ryanair, the worlds favourite airline, today (26th feb) confirmed that the winner of a 10,000 ryanair scratch card, on thursdays fr1724 flight from krakow to east midlands, ate the 10,000 winning ticket after crew confirmed he had won the 10,000 prize.
when the delighted crew congratulated the winner and advised him how to claim his prize he apparently became upset that ryanairs cabin crew could not pay him the 10,000 there and then on the flight.
when the crew explained to him that these very large 10,000 prizes needed to be verified with, and collected directly from, the scratch card company the prize winner became angry and decided to digest his win literally!http://www.ryanair.com/en/news/winner-of-10000-euro-ryanair-scratch-card-eats-winning-ticket.
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teel
Lol is this for real? The poll at the end asking on what charity to spend the 10k is funny too, and fitting for the passenger:
1. An Anger Management Charity 2. An Eating Disorder Charity 3. A Gamblers Charity 4. A Disruptive Children’s Charity 5. A Mental Health Charity
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Post YOUR obvious Prophecy for the future...if correct you can join my Governing Body!!
by Witness 007 inwhy don't you have a go at an obvious prophecy!
jesus said increased wars, earthqaukes, pestilence {obvious prophecies} but here are mine.. 1. verily i say interest rates will rise and fall like "the sea of mankind.".
2. there shall be riots and turmoil after soccer matches...see that you are not terrified, for these things must take place...".
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teel
Truly I say to you, false prophets will come. And there will be scrolls written about them, not on papyrus, not on sheepskin, but on invisible paper, yet all the world will be able to read those words. And truly I tell you the pages of those scrolls will reach over 10.000, and the rejoicing will be great. And it will be known among the initiated as... JWN.
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Russian Tract campaign: "Could It Happen Again? A Question for the Citizens of Russia"
by TJ - iAmCleared2Land inhttp://www.jw-media.org/rus/20100226.htm.
for immediate release.
february 25, 2010. jehovahs witnesses address their fellow citizensrussiaon february 26-28, 2010, throughout russia, from the chukchi peninsula in the east to kaliningrad in the west, a special campaign is taking place.
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teel
On page 3 of the tract there are 3 "facts" to show JWs are not extremists.
1. CLAIM: Jehovah’s Witnesses endanger the State by sowing religious discord, claiming that theirs is the only true religion.
CONSIDER: Do you know of any religion that does not claim to be the true one? After all, why would people adhere to a religion if they did not believe its tenets to be true? Really, then, all religions are equally liable to thesame charge. Perhaps it is more meaningful to ask, ‘How are the adherents of a particular religion taught to treat those with different beliefs?’
So true... so what is JWs teaching about people with different beliefs? Let's see: they're bird food, they lie, fornicate at every occasion, their love is false, etc. They also use every possible occasion to slander other faiths, generally calling them "false Christians". No, that would not cause any discord at all...
2 CLAIM: Jehovah’s Witnesses are a destructive sect because they break up families.
CONSIDER: In any family, religion can be a sensitive issue, particularly when one member adopts a different faith. Does that mean, though, that the religions involved are to blame for the discord? Or do the individuals bear responsibility for how they handle their new differences?
Right, throw the blame on the individuals you spineless *****. It isn't that the WTS is teaching followers to hate and shun disfellowshipped persons. It's the individual's responsibility.
CLAIM: Jehovah’s Witnesses refuse medical treatment.
Can you say red herring? I doubt the russian court said JWs refuse medical treatment. They are refusing BLOOD! Which choice is killing people every year, no matter how you spin it in the so called "Fact" section.
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Do you not know?
by Barbra indo you not know that they teach wrong doctrine?.
i hope you do i pray you do!
it's brainwash on so many lvls.
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teel
Actually Stephen (seeing this thread has no particular topic any more I don't worry about hijacking it) from your quoted passage JWs eyes will be transfixed on verse 6 - they use it as anti-trinitarian proof.
Reading the verse in an other language and other translation makes me realize it can be interpreted from a trinitarian view this way too: Jesus was God, but he didn't want to grasp to that function under all circumstances, but gave up all to become human. Amirite?
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How can the greatest command be to love God.
by acolytes inhow can the greatest commandment be to love god?
why did jesus say to his disiples that he loved them for keeping his commandments?.
doesnt being commanded to do something take away our freewill?.
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teel
You still have free will to disobey the commandment
Yes, that's only sidestepping. Loving because you "have to" brings us to the JW version of conditional, emotionless love.
As for me personally I take that scripture rather an invite than forcing you to do something.
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Forget 2012... The world will end May 21, 2011
by Elsewhere inhttp://articles.sfgate.com/2010-01-01/bay-area/17466332_1_east-bay-bay-area-first-time-camping.
biblical scholar's date for rapture: may 21, 2011theologyjanuary 01, 2010|by justin berton, chronicle staff writerformer civil engineer harold camping of oakland, who runs family radio, has studied the bible for almost 70 years.credit: lance iversen / the chronicleharold camping lets out a hearty chuckle when he considers the people who believe the world will end in 2012.. "that date has not one stitch of biblical authority," camping says from the oakland office where he runs family radio, an evangelical station that reaches listeners around the world.
"it's like a fairy tale.".
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teel
Don't laugh so hard, his calculations are just as belivable as the 2520 days... and we believed that one for a while.
I wonder if he'll play the "invisible end" card after 2011 too...