The best part about a meeting to me anymore is when its over, and I'm on my way home. Whats ironic to me is, one of the arguments used to support the Memorial being celebrated annually as opposed to the churches doing it daily or weekly, is that it would lose the sense of importance if done too regular. I actually agree with that position taken by the WT. What kills me though, is that the same argument can be made regarding regular meeting attendance. There's nothing special about weekly meetings, especially when you've been attending two or three meetings a week for the past 30 years or more of your life. Eventually the meetings are viewed as a hinderance, and even a necesarry irritation depending on how much of it you still believe in. There's days I'm mentally exhausted after work, and the last thing I want to do is go to some meeting in order to worship the Faithful and Discreet Slave. It gets old after a while. Not to mention, meetings aren't all that stimulating.
I've been meaning to do a spreadsheet on the past year's WT Studies, and Service Meetings, just to see how repetative the meetings really are. I just haven't found the time. I wanted to do different categories such as 1. how many times the F&D Slave have been mentioned, or 2. how often we have parts about meeting attendance, a la meetings about meetings, etc..
To be fair, there are times I've heard comments during the Bible Highlights that I appreciated, and there's been Sunday Talks that I'm glad to say I was in attendance for. There's times I've been down, or dealing with some problem, and a good speaker spoke the words I needed to hear. Trouble is, the good that I get out of a meeting is often overshadowed by the repetative, dull nature of the majority of meetings. I'd rather put overtime in at work than attend meetings.
One last thing, I'm a cynical, unsatisfied person as it is by nature, the last thing I need is to be around a bunch of people with personality defects. Congregations are full of brown-nosers, and the perpetually depressed. There's days I feel like Hitler at a Bar Mitzvah.