Posts by babygirl30

Teabagging? NAH....this girl needs a swift kick to her TEETH! She is just such a hypocrit - and then has the audacity to turn your back to ME? Your own sister? the one who has BAILED her out numerous times...let her live with me...given her money...watched her daughter when she wanted to PARTY? UGH! I have such disgust towards that girl that it's past hiding or pretending that we're 'friends'. We're NOT!!!

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Just was given the 'cold shoulder' by my own sister in public...

by babygirl30 in

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that fat, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth i cannot stand.

yes...i said it... i cannot stand my own sister!

the girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically is mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person.

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That FAT, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth I cannot stand. Yes...i said it... I cannot stand my own sister! The girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically IS mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person. So much so that she has no friends (and never really did), no man wants to even bother with her, and she doesn't have a life outside of sitting around our parents house.

I posted awhile back about how she decided to recently attack me (after 1yr of no contact) by sending me email after email calling me names and DEMANDING that I take photos of she and my niece, old JW friends of mine, and other stuff - OFF my Facebook page (which I had literally created the day before) telling me that I am 'dead' to her and my niece because I'm DF'd and that she wants nothing to do with me and she is NOT my sister anymore. That was about a mos ago. On Sat past, I was out pampering myself and I see my sis (looking terrible as usual) and she sees me. We make eye contact, and she immediately rushes to stand IN FRONT OF MY NIECE so that she cannot see me!!!!!!! Literally, this fat cow of a sister of mine turned her back to me and blocked the view of my sweet innocent niece. Can you believe that? This girl has done soooo much illegal stuff that she is a walking violation, she has skeletons in her closet so deep they KICK each other, and she has been inactive for years....yet she has the NERVE to shun me? The ONLY reason she isn't DF'd too is that she hasn't gone forward (or gotten caught). All the more reason NOt to bother with JWs cause that type of haughtiness is sickening to me.

Just needed to vent. Thanks for reading.

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Official visit from two local elders one fine Sunday morning

by SnakesInTheTower in

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well, it finally happened.

a week ago sunday my fiancee and i were sitting in the living room drinking coffee and watching the morning talking heads when we heard the crunch of tires on the gravel in the driveaway, about 10:30 or so.

we looked at each other with that "are you expecting anyone?

babygirl30

That is the part that kills me...LOL...how they really DON'T stop to think how they make themselves appear to the 'world' by the things they do and say. Now that my boyfriend knows ALL the ins-and-outs about my being DF'd, has heard about all the shunning and cruel way I was treated by the 'shepherds', and has seen first hand how the elders take liberties by just stopping by unannounced - he has NO desire to have anything to do with JWs ever!!! Crazy part is that he talks about JWs more then I do...and when I asked him the other day WHY he keeps bringing them up and getting me 'started' in on venting about my situation with them, he said "because I don't want you to forget how they are...I don't want you to go back to that." REALLy put things in perspective.

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Are Jehovah's Witness men good catches?

by garyneal in

i've stated this before on this message board but i was kind of curious about this and wanted to get some feedback from the group.

in particular, the ladies who are either current or former jw's.. about a year or so ago, my wife went with me to a church i was attending at the time.

we then later that morning attended a kh meeting.

babygirl30

I used to truly believe JW men were the 'ish' and was taught that a Bethelite would be the ULTIMATE catch...yeah...well....that was until a JW kicked my arse of course! Wonder why I suddenly don't feel the same anymore...LOL

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My Hyprocrite friend just got reinstated I found out on my facebook.

by Butterflyleia85 in

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this seriously cracks me up.. i made a bold move and posted this.

(because i know there are some on my facebook that are jehovah witnesses, but i support the exjehovah witnesses now, i honestly hate hyprocrites but i also understand the struggle it is to be on one side by force and still be attached to the other side because of family, i respect honest people and it's not my place to expose people, that what the jw elders do, i keep to my own business).. remember that july 2009 awake!

well notice these words on page 29:no one should be forced to worship in a way that he finds unacceptable or be made to choose between his beliefs and his family.

babygirl30

Just people that you have allowed access to YOUR page - can see your 'wall' information.

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My Hyprocrite friend just got reinstated I found out on my facebook.

by Butterflyleia85 in

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this seriously cracks me up.. i made a bold move and posted this.

(because i know there are some on my facebook that are jehovah witnesses, but i support the exjehovah witnesses now, i honestly hate hyprocrites but i also understand the struggle it is to be on one side by force and still be attached to the other side because of family, i respect honest people and it's not my place to expose people, that what the jw elders do, i keep to my own business).. remember that july 2009 awake!

well notice these words on page 29:no one should be forced to worship in a way that he finds unacceptable or be made to choose between his beliefs and his family.

babygirl30

PLEASE! I know pioneers that take skank-ho pics when they are 'in da club'...and their dingbat behinds POST that mess on FB like it's cute!!! Of course when word gets out about the photos, all of a sudden they come down and in it's place is a wholesome pic in service or with their boyfriend/husband...just flat out FAKE!!

I still believe that Jehovah sees ALL...so if she is still getting down and dirty YET got reinstated - good for her. But jehovah STILL knows what she is about and the crap she does. He can see through that mess (even if the elders can't).

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Why no letter for DF'ing?

by sd-7 in

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i think it was blondie who just replied to chickpea's topic, saying that elders are told not to give people a letter when they are df'ed.

this sparked a matter of curiosity for me.

why is it that people wishing to be reinstated have to write a letter to the body of elders, but the body of elders will not write a letter to a person stating that they are df'ed?

babygirl30

Not to hijack your thread, but I have often wondered the same thing....and....WHERE did the whole "write a letter" stuff come from? NEVER saw that in the Bible?! So it's not enough to be publically humiliated by an announcement, having your family/friends shun you, and being known as a supposed 'unrepenetent sinner'......NOW if you want to come back, you have to write a LETTER to 3 men begging to be let back in?

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Did You Have Any Weirdo JWs In Your Hall?

by minimus in

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in the 2 halls i was in, there were a few.

but the most memorable one was an elderly pioneer who would ask the householder if they wanted to hear about "the truth".

when they quite naturally said ,"no", he responded with, "if you don't believe in jesus, jesus will turn you into a pig"!.

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There was a 'study' in my cong that has mental issues (and was formerly an alcoholic). This pervy brother in the cong 'found' her in service one day and hooked her up with a pioneer as a study> Turns out that this study and this brother were having a relationship...and so he got DF'd (for the 3rd time). Either way, she continued to study and was seriously 'touched - and not by an angel either'. She would refuse to wear a bra but LOVED sundresses which also exposed all her tattoos, she shaved her head really close, and also sometimes would NOT wear her false teeth...then she would comment about how GREATEFUL shew as to this brother who FOUND her and helpled her study and learn about Jehovah and she would gush on about this dude...so it was painfully obvious that she was STILL in love with the dirty old perv.

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Have you ever been punished by the elders for objecting to the borgs treatment of you?

by highdose in

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i made the mistake of objecting to being slandered in the congo and the resulting shunning it got me, even though i had done nothing wrong at all.

but all i got in return was "loving counsel... puke" in the form of a strict telling off... it was my first real step out of there, you might say the scales started to fall from my eyes at that point.. i'd very much like to know if i'm alone in experiancing this kind of treatment or not?

i suspect not...?.

babygirl30

When a person suffers injustice the blinders fall off definitelly.

AMEN...I 2nd that because it wasn't until the unjust treatment of me AFTER coming forward over the abuse I tolerated from my ex fiance - that it was like I suddenly WOKE UP! THings were much clearer and made more sense to me after that.