that fat, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth i cannot stand.
yes...i said it... i cannot stand my own sister!
the girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically is mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person.
Oh....let me apologize for thinking THIS was the 1 place I can VENT freely and not be judged! LOL
Seriously, I said that stuff because I was upset. But I don't consider what I said (or in the context it was said) as vindictive...at no time have I made any attempts to 'get at' my sister, pay her back for all the wrong she's done, tried to expose her secret 'life', nor done ANYTHING at all to her that I would be ashamed of or feel guilty for.
i have a concern i guess or just want to vent.
my husband and i - as most of you know - we're married just a little under 2 months and you all know at that point i was still "active" in the org.
we had a few issues with our bridal party - namely the groom - cuz according to them he wasnt a good example and not in good status because they hadn't seen him at the meetings or in service for like 2 months.
When i was setting up arrangements for MY wedding (thank GOD I didn't marry that fool)...there was SO much drama over whom could be IN the stupid thing. My ex had a brother and a cousin that BOTH were 'inactive' and we were told they were not approved...his brother was on public reproof at the time and so it caused issues on the homefront.
YET...a sister in my cong at the time got married 2 mos before me and she had a girl who she was friends with, grew up in the 'org' but never got baptized, was not even a publisher, and had made it CLEAR she has NO interest in becoming a JW. But her butt was RIGHT UP IN the wedding held at the KHall!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How the elders justify 1 instance and not another, I have no idea. But there is no consistency in that type of decision.
that fat, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth i cannot stand.
yes...i said it... i cannot stand my own sister!
the girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically is mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person.
Ninja
What do mean? Are you saying that in some way I am vindictive towards HER?
that fat, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth i cannot stand.
yes...i said it... i cannot stand my own sister!
the girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically is mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person.
Teabagging? NAH....this girl needs a swift kick to her TEETH! She is just such a hypocrit - and then has the audacity to turn your back to ME? Your own sister? the one who has BAILED her out numerous times...let her live with me...given her money...watched her daughter when she wanted to PARTY? UGH! I have such disgust towards that girl that it's past hiding or pretending that we're 'friends'. We're NOT!!!
that fat, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth i cannot stand.
yes...i said it... i cannot stand my own sister!
the girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically is mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person.
That FAT, sloppy, nasty b*tch is the one person on this earth I cannot stand. Yes...i said it... I cannot stand my own sister! The girl is bpd (borderline personality disorder) and so she technically IS mentally ill - but it makes her a terribly vindictive and hateful person. So much so that she has no friends (and never really did), no man wants to even bother with her, and she doesn't have a life outside of sitting around our parents house.
I posted awhile back about how she decided to recently attack me (after 1yr of no contact) by sending me email after email calling me names and DEMANDING that I take photos of she and my niece, old JW friends of mine, and other stuff - OFF my Facebook page (which I had literally created the day before) telling me that I am 'dead' to her and my niece because I'm DF'd and that she wants nothing to do with me and she is NOT my sister anymore. That was about a mos ago. On Sat past, I was out pampering myself and I see my sis (looking terrible as usual) and she sees me. We make eye contact, and she immediately rushes to stand IN FRONT OF MY NIECE so that she cannot see me!!!!!!! Literally, this fat cow of a sister of mine turned her back to me and blocked the view of my sweet innocent niece. Can you believe that? This girl has done soooo much illegal stuff that she is a walking violation, she has skeletons in her closet so deep they KICK each other, and she has been inactive for years....yet she has the NERVE to shun me? The ONLY reason she isn't DF'd too is that she hasn't gone forward (or gotten caught). All the more reason NOt to bother with JWs cause that type of haughtiness is sickening to me.
Just needed to vent. Thanks for reading.
well, it finally happened.
a week ago sunday my fiancee and i were sitting in the living room drinking coffee and watching the morning talking heads when we heard the crunch of tires on the gravel in the driveaway, about 10:30 or so.
we looked at each other with that "are you expecting anyone?
That is the part that kills me...LOL...how they really DON'T stop to think how they make themselves appear to the 'world' by the things they do and say. Now that my boyfriend knows ALL the ins-and-outs about my being DF'd, has heard about all the shunning and cruel way I was treated by the 'shepherds', and has seen first hand how the elders take liberties by just stopping by unannounced - he has NO desire to have anything to do with JWs ever!!! Crazy part is that he talks about JWs more then I do...and when I asked him the other day WHY he keeps bringing them up and getting me 'started' in on venting about my situation with them, he said "because I don't want you to forget how they are...I don't want you to go back to that." REALLy put things in perspective.
i've stated this before on this message board but i was kind of curious about this and wanted to get some feedback from the group.
in particular, the ladies who are either current or former jw's.. about a year or so ago, my wife went with me to a church i was attending at the time.
we then later that morning attended a kh meeting.
I used to truly believe JW men were the 'ish' and was taught that a Bethelite would be the ULTIMATE catch...yeah...well....that was until a JW kicked my arse of course! Wonder why I suddenly don't feel the same anymore...LOL
this seriously cracks me up.. i made a bold move and posted this.
(because i know there are some on my facebook that are jehovah witnesses, but i support the exjehovah witnesses now, i honestly hate hyprocrites but i also understand the struggle it is to be on one side by force and still be attached to the other side because of family, i respect honest people and it's not my place to expose people, that what the jw elders do, i keep to my own business).. remember that july 2009 awake!
well notice these words on page 29:no one should be forced to worship in a way that he finds unacceptable or be made to choose between his beliefs and his family.
Just people that you have allowed access to YOUR page - can see your 'wall' information.
this seriously cracks me up.. i made a bold move and posted this.
(because i know there are some on my facebook that are jehovah witnesses, but i support the exjehovah witnesses now, i honestly hate hyprocrites but i also understand the struggle it is to be on one side by force and still be attached to the other side because of family, i respect honest people and it's not my place to expose people, that what the jw elders do, i keep to my own business).. remember that july 2009 awake!
well notice these words on page 29:no one should be forced to worship in a way that he finds unacceptable or be made to choose between his beliefs and his family.
PLEASE! I know pioneers that take skank-ho pics when they are 'in da club'...and their dingbat behinds POST that mess on FB like it's cute!!! Of course when word gets out about the photos, all of a sudden they come down and in it's place is a wholesome pic in service or with their boyfriend/husband...just flat out FAKE!!
I still believe that Jehovah sees ALL...so if she is still getting down and dirty YET got reinstated - good for her. But jehovah STILL knows what she is about and the crap she does. He can see through that mess (even if the elders can't).
i think it was blondie who just replied to chickpea's topic, saying that elders are told not to give people a letter when they are df'ed.
this sparked a matter of curiosity for me.
why is it that people wishing to be reinstated have to write a letter to the body of elders, but the body of elders will not write a letter to a person stating that they are df'ed?
Not to hijack your thread, but I have often wondered the same thing....and....WHERE did the whole "write a letter" stuff come from? NEVER saw that in the Bible?! So it's not enough to be publically humiliated by an announcement, having your family/friends shun you, and being known as a supposed 'unrepenetent sinner'......NOW if you want to come back, you have to write a LETTER to 3 men begging to be let back in?
