I was PoMi for 15 years. We didn't have a lot of communication but we talked and we had family gatherings. Then one day I realized it was all a lie and told all of them. they stopped all communication.
People on the forum told me to wait and not take any rush actions. And I ignored them all. Sent a letter to all my family members.
What is shunning me is not them, but their cult personality. But now there is no way I could help any of them wake up.
Both way suck. You need to pick which sucky option you like best.