omg!! What a cruel and evil thing to do! They are treating you as if you are some sick pervert! What a "loving" organization.
juci32
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Shunning is so stupid
by AwSnap ini cannot seem to shake the visual image i have from about 5 days ago.
i went over to my mom's house, and apparently she didn't mention it to my younger sister (who lives in their downstairs apartment).
she and her baby were visiting with my mom, and when she saw me walking up the side walk, she grabbed her toddler up in her arms and i saw her hauling ass down the stairs....the toddler didn't understand why she was just snatched up and hauled away and started screaming.
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Need Opinions -- Engaged to a JW!!
by junebug_11 inok, quick run down of my situation.. .
1. i am not religious.
my now-fiance was raised jw but left the religion about 10 years ago.. 2. we started dating last march, i got pregnant within two weeks.
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juci32
please take it from me. dont do i!!! its not worth the pain and heartache. i am recently divorced from a jw and he was not in while we were dating. i know you are gonna make your own decision like i did and chose not to listen to the people on the jw sites,married , then divorced after 2 years. Please dont be like me. A divided house will not stand.
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Need Opinions -- Engaged to a JW!!
by junebug_11 inok, quick run down of my situation.. .
1. i am not religious.
my now-fiance was raised jw but left the religion about 10 years ago.. 2. we started dating last march, i got pregnant within two weeks.
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juci32
please take it from me. dont do i!!! its not worth the pain and heartache. i am recently divorced from a jw and he was not in while we were dating. i know you are gonna make your own decision like i did and chose not to listen to the people on the jw sites,married , then divorced after 2 years. Please dont be like me. A divided house will not stand.
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i LOVE to hear these type of stories!!!! welcome aboard!!
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What's the most dumbest/petty thing you've heard of someone being "stumbled" over?
by Reality79 in- some loser once took offense that i hugged a sister goodbye at a leaving do and ran back to the elders like a little child telling on me.
i was 15, this sister was in her 40s at the time.. - this elder said someone told him they saw me with a copy of the sun newspaper.
yes, this paper is known for its 'page 3' topless girls but far from pornagraphic and i wasn't even thinking along those lines.. - one brother who had a good job was 'counselled' because he was actually able to buy himself nice things including a new car (shock, horror!!
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juci32
this is a great thread. i would say holding hands while praying is the dumbest way to stumble someone
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What's the most dumbest/petty thing you've heard of someone being "stumbled" over?
by Reality79 in- some loser once took offense that i hugged a sister goodbye at a leaving do and ran back to the elders like a little child telling on me.
i was 15, this sister was in her 40s at the time.. - this elder said someone told him they saw me with a copy of the sun newspaper.
yes, this paper is known for its 'page 3' topless girls but far from pornagraphic and i wasn't even thinking along those lines.. - one brother who had a good job was 'counselled' because he was actually able to buy himself nice things including a new car (shock, horror!!
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juci32
Can you post a link to the page please? Their are so many...
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Fornicate so he can remarry??
by juci32 inhey guys!
i've been here a while, posted a few topics about me and my witness hubs.
well i finally through in the towel and filed for a divorce.
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I have no problem simply telling him that "he is free" once i move on, I will never go into any details. even though i dont agree with all their rules I still wouldnt want to be as anal as they are . He told me I dont have to give details as Chapter stated above,he just doesnt want to be alone.
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Fornicate so he can remarry??
by juci32 inhey guys!
i've been here a while, posted a few topics about me and my witness hubs.
well i finally through in the towel and filed for a divorce.
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@ New Chapter... I like your post and sorry you had to deal with that, and just to let you know.... I agree with what you are saying. I dont have a problem letting him know that he is free because i dont hold any harsh feelings for him and dont want him to be alone.
@ other poster... it did cross my mind that since they preach about Arm. being so close, then why is he so pressed about remmarrying?? maybe he doesn't really believe that it's close??
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On being reasonable
by Lion Cask inrecap.
non-jw man with jw wife.
she joined after we were married, against my wishes.
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juci32
WOW! I refused to keep doing what you are doing because we(non JW's) always get the short end of the stick.
You are strong for finally thinking of yourself and stopping the compromising because they will not think twice about compromising with you. I havent even been married 3 yrs to my JW hubs and I couldnt take it anymore. I can admit i feel so much better, free and happy now that I dont have to deal with the judgmental ways of the JW's. They expect you to compromise cause it's the "troof" but they will not do the same.... You are not selfish or unreasonable... you are a human being who is getting fed up with BS.