I live in the south also, north Georgia if you are curious. around here the second thing most people ask after meeting you is what church do you go to.
so I also don't remember meeting any in service.
after I left the JW mindset, I set out a a journey (in a way) asking people at work about their church, and researching other mainstream Christian beliefs.
that path led to me research how the bible came to be, as well as read real scholarly work on evolution. This led me to a place of non-belief. At that point I actively sought out a atheist group to meet and talk to them directly. There are not many groups like this, but I live close enough to Atlanta that the group is fair sized.
A couple of the folks I met have turned out to be really good post-jw friends. including several ex-Mormons so we have similar stories to share.