Turn any shepherding call with more than one elder down!
Tell the kind elder you'd rather meet up with him for a coffee somewhere and then just chit chat with him and avoid any theo-cultic-talk, to any question he might ask in this regards just say "hum, I dunno, I guess I'll have to think about that" and "hum, I guess I'll have to think about that too" and "I guess that's another one to think about".
To any theocratese expressions from him squint your eyes a bit and tilt your head like he just said something in a foreign language you don't understand.
Keep changing the subject to non-theo-cultic topics and try to speak to his genuine personality not his cult-personality.
Anyway, that's how I handle these types (and their anti-types as well).