@Crazyguy,
Tell the CO guy that you wrote that letter in haste and due to your stressed out state you
want to retract it. Do this if you want to stop associating without being tagged as DA'ed or DF'ed.
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Then write the BOE of your congregation another letter telling them you are withdrawing membership
from that congregation. That's right... not DA'ing as a JW... but rather, withdrawing membership from
that specific congregation.
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So include that you in no way are disassociating yourself from the Jehovah's Witness community.
Only that you no longer want to be recognized in the membership list of that particular congregation.
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Then write another letter telling them to cease calling or making contact with you, threaten with
legal measures against the local BOE. Tell them that you will not include the Watchtower Society in
the legal case unless they start giving legal advise to the BOE and by their association they are
including themselves in your legal case against them.
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You want to repeat clearly that you will sue the local BOE for any judicial action they take against you,
since you don't consider yourself a member of that congregation anylonger, and you will sue them for
any negative mention of you in a public setting or any announcement.
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End by reassuring them that you are not disassociating yourself and you reserve the right to join another
JW congregation of your choosing wherenever you're ready to do so, where you won't feel they'll
harass you mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
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Due to the stress you've been a victim of through the BOE's contact with you, you find no alternative but
to withdraw membership from that congregation and their biggoted representatives.
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DO NOT involve your wife in any communications as a go-between. And tell the BOE in the letter to respect
your head of household standing and not discuss anything related to you or your family unless you are
present.
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Wishing you the best,
Oppostate
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