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  Out Here on My Own

  by mamamo in

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  tonight glee had a sing off using the song out here on my own.

  "sometimes i wonder ... who i am, do i fit in.

  out here on my own.. always proving who we are.".

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  mamamo

  My getting out song was Here I Go Again by Whitesnake:

  I don't know where I'm goin
  but I sure know where I've been
  hanging on the promises in songs of yesterday.
  An' I've made up my mind, I ain't wasting no more time
  but here I go again, here I go again.
  
  Tho' I keep searching for an answer
  I never seem to find what I'm looking for.
  Oh Lord, I pray you give me strength to carry on
  'cos I know what it means to walk along the lonely street of dreams.
  
  Here I go again on my own
  goin' down the only road I've ever known.
  Like a drifter I was born to walk alone.
  An' I've made up my mind, I ain't wasting no more time.
  
  It was popular in 1987 and I left in 1990.
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  Out Here on My Own

  by mamamo in

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  tonight glee had a sing off using the song out here on my own.

  "sometimes i wonder ... who i am, do i fit in.

  out here on my own.. always proving who we are.".

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  mamamo

  Tonight Glee had a sing off using the song Out Here on My Own.

  "Sometimes I wonder ... who I am, do I fit in. Out here on my own.

  Always proving who we are."

  For some reason it struck a chord with me tonight. That we are the ones out here on our own.
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  What does your user name mean????

  by karter in

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  anything ???.

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  karter ...i race go-karts.

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  mamamo

  First two letters of my three names (maiden) Mary Margaret is my given name. Just seems to work for me. Yeah, JW who sounds like she has a Catholic name and I was born in.
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  JW obsession....

  by light_bulb in

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  hi i'm new here.. i've been dfed for almost 2 years.

  despite the usual familly problems that i have had to deal with, i found i was living life successfully... so happy to be out in the world, experiencing new things and just enjoying the freedom to be me.

  i never really have too much time to worry too much about what i have left behind.

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  mamamo

  Oh yeah, you might want to check out Meet up or Yahoo Groups. Not knowing where you live, there are several areas that have meet ups for us exes. It really helped me with finding the people who understood because they have been there too.
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  JW obsession....

  by light_bulb in

  1. jw
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  hi i'm new here.. i've been dfed for almost 2 years.

  despite the usual familly problems that i have had to deal with, i found i was living life successfully... so happy to be out in the world, experiencing new things and just enjoying the freedom to be me.

  i never really have too much time to worry too much about what i have left behind.

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  mamamo

  I think the forums really help. I have friends that i do say stuff to, like the other day when my mother asked if I was going to get reinstated. SInce I haven't been inside a KH except for my father's memorial service for something like 20 years, I told her it wasn't going to happen and that I had done my research. Before my father passed back in January, I had cut all my times and didn't call them. But I felt like I needed to check up on my mom very so often now that she is alone. Oh well, the WT article put an end to that.

  Since you are a newbie, if you haven't found the books, mainly Crisis of Conscience by Raymond Franz. He high up in Bethel back in the 60's, 70s, worked on the Aid book and others and then started noticing somethings didn't add up. He was df'd when he asked some questions.

  So feel free indulge your obession here with us who have been there, done that.
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  BORN-INS: If you could go back and Change this.

  by hirotaka in

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  a question primarily derected to born-ins....doesn't matter if you're still in or out.. if you could go back in time, let's say to the time you were a teenager, before being baptised.. do you regret not telling your jw parents that you just couldn't do the jw thing anymore and that you wanted out?

  i think about this often that it may have worked out much better not to get baptized, married to a jw, and have to tow that line for decades, feaful to loose family and friends.. in the end that's what happened to me anyway, five years ago and now i have the life i should have had my whole life.. what are your thoughts and feelings on this?.

  cheers.

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  I deeply regret getting batized at 16. But it took me another 9 years to quit. I knew I shouldn't have gotten baptized, I really thought there was no way they would pass me, but they did. Yesterday, my mother once again started in with the "it would be so much easier if you would just get reinstated." But it seriously ain't happening. I have been out for 21 years this December 9th.

  I'm not sure how things would have went if I hadn't gotten baptized. Would I have slowly slipped away? And then what would my mom have done or said? I think she would have bugged me all the time until I either totally shut her out or caved and stayed in. Thank goodness I didn't get married and have kids before I left.
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  A warning for all from Totally ADD

  by TotallyADD in

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  it has been four days since i have been on jwn.

  because i am not as young as i used to be.

  as many know my wife and i are opening up a donut store.

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  mamamo

  Hope you get to feeling better soon! It sucks to get old, but the other alternative ain't so great!
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  After leaving the Faith, do you celebrate all of the Holidays?

  by Quarterback in

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  i could never understand how some who don't follow some of the moral restrictions in the jw faith, are strong against celebrating the .

  religious holidays such as christmas, and easter etc.. do you celebrate the holidays knowing some of their origins?.

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  mamamo

  I celebrate them all. I did a lot more when my boys were smaller. For some reason they don't want the Easter Baskets that much when they are in the teens. Last year for Christmas we rented a cabin in Pigeon Forge and these native Floridians had their first white Christmas. It was great!

  Does it drive my mother crazy? Heck yeah, all the more reason to do it! I'm making up for all those years I had to go sit in the library while everybody had parties.
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  How would you spend your time?

  by Jack C. in

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  let's say it was revealed via the media and scientific community that a planet wide catastrophe such as a large comet or asteroid impact or even a brush with a large planetary body or black hole was emminant and that it was certain to devistate the planet in say 18 months.

  how would you spend the remaining time?

  if the event was considered possibly survivable by maybe a few million what action, if any would you take?

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  mamamo

  I would try to finish my degree in the remaiing or time or I would travel to at least Disneyland, since i have never been there. Although it wouldn't be my first time, it would be the first time in a long time, so add getting laid in there.
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  What's the first thing you did when you got out?

  by fallen_princess in

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  i was thinking about all the things i missed out on growing up as a jw.

  many of those things i will never be able to do anyway, like join in any extracurriular activities or go to senior prom.

  but one of the first things i did when i got out if the borg was join a ballroom dance class and go to a nightclub with some of the students in the class.

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  mamamo

  Oh yeah, celebrated Christmas openly for the first time.